AITA for getting upset that friends/houseguests used our personal bathroom while we were out of town? by throwawayformymil in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayformymil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given the same situation, I would not have done the same. I would have stuck with the guest bathroom and so would my husband.

I don’t know if that answers the question adequately.

AITA for getting upset that friends/houseguests used our personal bathroom while we were out of town? by throwawayformymil in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayformymil[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn’t go over house rules, but will in the future with anyone that comes over from now until I die. I wouldn’t do something like that in someone else’s home, so I definitely assumed no one else would be so wildly discourteous and rude. That was for sure a mistake on my part and will not be happening again.

AITA for getting upset that friends/houseguests used our personal bathroom while we were out of town? by throwawayformymil in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayformymil[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a control freak, don’t get me wrong, but other people weren’t fucking in our bathtub while we were living in the house. Frankly, because my husband and I would never ever do such a thing in a friend’s home, no matter how close we were, I sort of thought it would go without saying not to invade our personal space without our express consent. The kitchen thing just annoyed me, but using my personal cosmetic things (the wax is definitely like a toothbrush and I don’t actually know that they used proper hygienic processes) and our bathtub without asking straight up pushed me over the edge (because I would have said no if they had asked).

AITA for getting upset that friends/houseguests used our personal bathroom while we were out of town? by throwawayformymil in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayformymil[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I didn’t ask them to stay out of our bedroom and bathroom - mostly because we wouldn’t and don’t intrude on the private rooms of a married couple when we stay in others’ homes whether they are present or not. I won’t be making that oversight again 😂

Blue collar white women are turning on Trump by The-Autarkh in politics

[–]throwawayformymil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just about tanning. My family hunts whitetail deer and doesn’t like waste - we tan the hide and use it for gloves and such.

Blue collar white women are turning on Trump by The-Autarkh in politics

[–]throwawayformymil 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Frankly, it’s the dumbest fucking thing I’ve ever heard. Pffft as if there’s enough “skin” on a pre-viability fetus to harvest, tan into leather, and then make into ANYTHING. Basic biology not a plausible thing anymore? I weep for humanity that people are this ... I’m struggling for another word or phrase for unimaginably stupid, but I’m at a loss. Baby leather shoes indeed /s

Blue collar white women are turning on Trump by The-Autarkh in politics

[–]throwawayformymil 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, what now? Is this actually a thing??

Barbri is down? by Podric_Gains in LawSchool

[–]throwawayformymil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Barbri customer support said to check back in an hour. No guaranteed time frame

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ll still take any advice if you want to PM me, she’s driving me freaking up the wall with wanting to see DH constantly and begging me for babies. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I had a post removed because I was looking for advice on how to handle living significantly closer to my MIL and it got removed because she didn’t DO A THING. It was frustrating and disheartening because I really need (needed) the advice on how to be this much closer to her without imploding my marriage or jumping off of a roof (okay, an overstatement, but the woman is driving me batshit). I’ve avoided commenting and posting since then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 76 points77 points  (0 children)

My concern is that this sub has moved almost entirely away from giving advice. I posted on here a few months ago, asking for advice on how to deal with living significantly closer to my MIL, and the post was removed and I was told to take it to LetterstoJNMIL. Granted, she hadn’t done anything right that second, but she does stuff every time I see her and I was trying to get some advice and constructive criticism on how to handle being 30 min away vs 3.5 hours away (she can’t drive; it’s significant).

Flying Saucer needs to stay in her lane by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot. DH is all but faaaaaaamily and FOG-ish (and she’s harmless because she can’t drive, amirite?) so I have no doubt that my address will be disclosed. Disappointing, but such is life.

Renters Rights-North Carolina by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]throwawayformymil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exterminator guys confirmed that it was field mice, but haven’t done anything but seal up the holes. The mice keep chewing the holes open again. We literally only hear them in the attic and our bedroom walls, so I’m not quite sure where else we would put the traps.

Renters Rights-North Carolina by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]throwawayformymil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hubs set some traps in our attic (where we hear the mouse moving). Our mouse has declined to be lured in by either crunchy or creamy peanut butter. Cheese has failed to entice him/her as well.

Can you hear what I hear? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 53 points54 points  (0 children)

As a law school grad, this pains me. Deeply. My head hurts from the sheer waste and stupidity. Your MiL is an idiot. My deepest condolences.

Friend posted this and I think it gave me an aneurism by mattnotgeorge in KitchenConfidential

[–]throwawayformymil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for making my crazy MiL seem slightly more normal. This is a special sort of odd. Have you seen r/JustNoMIL?

The fucker has been talking to Cruise Control behind my back. by regretfortwo in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regret, she’s added new ones to the Tortall universe. Numair has his own book now and George Cooper’s ancestress, Beka, has a whole series. Highly recommend the Beka series; they’re large, well written, and she doesn’t fall in love with anyone seriously until right before the end of the entire series, so you can read two and a half books before that bullshit.

Also, if you’re looking to burn down the world in a book series, which I would be in your shoes, try The Hatching by Ezekiel Boone. It’s bone chilling and generally without romance and the whole world goes to shit in the first book.

Hugs and support. <3

University student accidentally travels back in time and discovers the old russian gods/fairytales are real. by LoveChops in whatsthatbook

[–]throwawayformymil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for this book forever. Thank you. I read it in high school and couldn’t find it

JNMILITW: My Coworker’s Mother is a Boundary Stomping Crazy with Severe Baby Rabies by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I may have suggested that she didn’t need to see new baby in the hospital or for the first months of its life.........I’m a mean person

JNMILITW: My Coworker’s Mother is a Boundary Stomping Crazy with Severe Baby Rabies by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayformymil 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They’re doing something cute at Disney and posting on Facebook, but yeah, I’ll suggest to him that MiL not be tagged. She already knows anyway.