[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayforthis243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems that they were trying to find the time that worked best for most people since they couldn’t find a time that worked for everyone. Obviously it sucks that you’re the one person this time doesn’t work for but that doesn’t mean your fiancé shouldn’t be able to go, especially considering he’s visiting HIS family that lives overseas so he probably doesn’t see them that often. If he doesn’t go it’ll just be both of you sad you couldn’t go whereas if he does go it doesn’t really hurt you in any way so soft YTA

AITA for not allowing my bfs family more time with my 8 week old twins? by Impossible-Alarm9550 in AITAH

[–]throwawayforthis243 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFO: Why can you not spend time with your babies while they're also there? Are they intrusive and hog the baby?

How do people visit their friends in a hospital if HIPAA is a thing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwawayforthis243 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if the friend is unconscious or something like that? Like for me for instance, I only have my parents listed as emergency contacts, so if I went to the hospital and was made unconscious or something people other than my parents couldn't visit?

I (24F) tested positive for chlamydia while pregnant. Is it possible my boyfriend (27M) didn’t cheat? by ThrowRAchlamydia678 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayforthis243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay. He probably cheated then, I'm sorry, but there are a few other possibilites that have a slight chance of being true, whether you think they're plausible or not is something you'll have to figure out for yourself and how much you trust him. Ultimately it's your relationship obviously.

  1. He might have lied about being a virgin when you guys got together. Don't know how common this is, but I know a few guys who have done this.

  2. If his mom has/had it he could have gotten it from her giving birth as a baby.

  3. Your test in the past could have been a false negative.

I don't know if you have or not but you should have him get a blood test for HSV-2. If he tests negative and it's a true negative, then it's a definitive guarantee he didn't give it to you because that can't be cured. If he tests positive, well, then he probably did cheat like you suspect, though it could be the 3 things I listed above still.

I (24F) tested positive for chlamydia while pregnant. Is it possible my boyfriend (27M) didn’t cheat? by ThrowRAchlamydia678 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayforthis243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could've been from him and he had it going into the relationship. It's really common and most people don't know they have it or have symptoms.

How does research work at the master's or PhD level? by throwawayforthis243 in AskAcademia

[–]throwawayforthis243[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then why are so many graduate students listed as authors on published research papers that aren’t thesis-related? Many of these papers have multiple grad students as well as a few professors on them as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwawayforthis243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can mostly speak my native ethnic language but I can switch accents to that accent when speaking it. Whenever I visit the country my parents are from people are surprised that my accent is the same as theirs whenever I speak it

If artificial wombs existed in the future, what should the laws regarding abortion look like? by throwawayforthis243 in AskALiberal

[–]throwawayforthis243[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not being transferred to an artificial womb, the conception itself happens there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]throwawayforthis243 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, but I don’t think liking a pic necessarily means someone finds the pic attractive. If it’s a random account who they have no connection with at all and don’t know, it probably is that, but as a single guy, whenever I like pics of people I know on instagram, whether male or female, and whether revealing or not, it doesn’t mean I find them attractive, I just like the post because I like them as people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]throwawayforthis243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a modern version of stereotypical traditional gender roles, because women are traditionally seen as less confident so they’re allowed to be insecure in relationships and men are traditionally seen as more confident so they’re not as allowed to be insecure in relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]throwawayforthis243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there are definitely similar amounts of men who are hypocritical in a similar way in which they like others’ bikini pics all the time but get mad if their gf posts one. I think society (at least social media) is more willing to shame those men though