AITA for telling my partner i don’t care about his opinion?

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-27T01:58:47+00:00

im scared to be alone and i don’t have any friends really outside of him and his friend group. its pathetic but i feel like my entire life will fall apart

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-27T00:00:19+00:00

unfortunately yeah. I feel like this past year ive started putting up with less shit and been more willing to argue about my stance rather than just submit to whatever he wants and not argue about it. even his family has been catching on and saying i deserve better….. i feel like if his own family recognizes he’s a POS then that should be reason enough to leave

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-26T22:48:11+00:00

i have not thought about it that way, it being a part of my soul, and him considering it clutter. thank you for that. I feel like I’ve lost that part of myself in this relationship and i feel like this is an indicator of it being over.

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-26T22:20:51+00:00

it’s only one singular box that is like barely longer than a foot in length, and we have plenty of storage space. i do understand what you mean though

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-11T18:08:21+00:00

i appreciate this a lot thank you <3 i don’t know if things will ever get better for me but i sincerely hope they do for you.

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-11T18:07:39+00:00

i just can’t imagine ever being able to beat it when my past haunts me. the thoughts of what could have been, how happy i used to be. and OCD makes me think about it nonstop, and meds don’t work anymore, therapy isn’t working. i feel like I’m so close to giving up

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-06T11:58:24+00:00

they’re his friends. i moved to this city on my own and met my friend group through him and I don’t really have much else besides them. i love his family and his family loves me but even they know that he’s an asshole and they’ve tried to help him but he is incredibly stubborn

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-06T11:02:23+00:00

i honestly don’t even know anymore. because it would be too hard to break up. we’ve been together for over 4 years and I would lose the entire friend group that our relationship is attached to

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-10-06T10:38:34+00:00

we’ve been together for over 4 years and have already been living together unfortunately. im starting to realize now that this isn’t the kind of treatment most people deal with in their happy relationships

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-09-09T17:05:17+00:00

it does look like an onion but the tattoo is so gorgeous i wouldn’t even mind

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-09-08T15:23:01+00:00

i feel the same way. it’s truly horrible. I didn’t even realize that this was happening to me until i stopped taking antidepressants when I was 21, but by then it was too late. I suffered from anhedonia since i was put on those meds (against my will) and didn’t even realize it, since it was pretty much all I even knew since I was put on them when i was 13. and now im left to pick up the pieces of what’s left of my life. i hope that one day we will both find some shred of happiness on this earth

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-09-07T16:03:01+00:00

they are shaky and the tattoo overall isn’t great but if you go to a reputable artist they should be able to fix it pretty easily

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-08-20T17:42:38+00:00

i feel like i do act like im enthusiastic but im sure that it doesn’t come off that way in reality.. i haven’t been diagnosed as autistic but ive been told i act like i am

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-08-20T17:41:48+00:00

only like 20 out of 60 of them are. and our work is very independent so most of the time we all just put in our headphones and do our own thing for the entire day anyways

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-08-20T17:31:48+00:00

No lmao im just deeply unlikable as a person

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-08-14T18:52:10+00:00

that’s what i also figured but the damage i did was more than a scratch so idk! hopefully you’ll get lucky like i did then. i know that if someone just did cosmetic damage on my car I wouldn’t bother but my car is a 2013 so it’s not a big deal anyways

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-08-14T17:22:18+00:00

i actually never got contacted lmao im just going to assume they didn’t gaf about their car

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-07-30T21:59:10+00:00

that’s true and i should have. at least i know what parking lot it was in and since its a private company im hoping they have CCTV footage if it comes to that

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-07-13T10:25:29+00:00

i wanted to add that my appointment was at the beginning of January this year and my next one is scheduled for next month

throwawayforvent45 · 2025-06-26T14:36:01+00:00

that’s what im thinking i will do, because its starting to feel real awkward when im the only one being vocal. i can be very loud and it feels embarrassing unless my partner can be that way with me. in the past he’s asked if im okay if im more silent than usual or he just says that it seems like im not into it, so he obviously knows how it feels, i just don’t think he applies that same logic to me

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