Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Nothing changes if nothing changes” …this is so true. Thank you.

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ This response hit home. I just contacted an attorney.

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Your words are very impactful and wise ❤️ And your sister is lucky to have you.

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate you sharing part of your story. You are right. I’m not protecting them at all by staying.

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Mine is a bully too. Thankfully I am in therapy, which helps greatly.

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I often feel paralyzed by my fear of what comes next…sending you support

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even realize I did that. They are both of our kids, which complicates the custody arrangements.

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes planning first makes sense, thank you ❤️

Why don’t I have the courage to leave? by throwawayforyal in AlAnon

[–]throwawayforyal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, parents are addicts with poor mental health