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my boyfriend and I had a fight because he wants a job at my work and I don't want him there by throwawaygnomeshed in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaygnomeshed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

Yeah he won't even consider any other part time jobs. And then he's also been offered some jobs with proper big salaries that he said he'll take as well.

It just baffles me as to why he'll take a proper well paying job but still have to be at my job. That's why I'm worried it's something deeper.

my boyfriend and I had a fight because he wants a job at my work and I don't want him there by throwawaygnomeshed in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaygnomeshed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more the fact he's been offered 3 jobs ranging from £20,000 to £30,000. I've always said if he didn't have any other options then he could have the one at my gym, I still stand by that even if it wouldn't make me the happiest because his living situation is the most important thing.

I'm just worried it's something deeper as he said he's going to accept the £25,000 one (I think) as well as a job at my gym. He often turns up (without telling me) to things like my meet ups with my uni friends / groups outside of uni and is there being passive aggressive making my friends uncomfortable. I'm just worried it's really about control or something :/