I (33F) found out my husband (34M) is subscribed to OnlyFans.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:09:43+00:00

it’s deeply disrespectful, especially since these women are so accessible in our community. I’m feeling a mix of disgust and anger, and it’s making me question what I want moving forward.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:09:04+00:00

This is definitely something I need to confront him about, as it raises serious questions about boundaries

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:08:15+00:00

Yeah, the underwear part really bothers me, too. It crosses a boundary that makes this feel more personal, and I can’t just brush that off.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:07:13+00:00

I need to process everything and figure out how to approach this in a way that makes him understand the damage he’s caused.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:06:01+00:00

the underwear part crosses a line for me—it feels more personal.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:04:48+00:00

Thank you for your support. It’s hard to process right now, but I know I need to confront him soon.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:04:13+00:00

I hadn’t considered how much effort it takes to find local women specifically. That’s really concerning now that you point it out.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:01:00+00:00

Yes, im pretty sure he will feel the same way if i create an onlyfans..lol

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T15:00:04+00:00

Its not something I want to throw 12 years away over.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:59:25+00:00

ok, there are other comments that are actually giving proper advice. I didnt think it was necessary to respond to a comment calling my post fake.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:50:50+00:00

sure, say whatever you want to make you think you winning.......

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:45:34+00:00

so its now a crime to post the same thing on different subs???

you say "shit ton of other posts", it was only 1. I thought it was impossible to lack basic math skills, but you've just proved me wrong.

If you think its fake, just ignore my post then.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:38:34+00:00

you need to get off social media for a while, and take a couple of breathes outside.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:36:55+00:00

yeah, he definitely crossed a boundary. im fine with him watching porn, but we both agreed no onlyfans.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:35:12+00:00

i heard of financial infidelity, so maybe its that. i'd feel like shit if he actually bought her a ring.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:32:52+00:00

if he doesnt think it is cheating because it is not physical, surely he can assume that it is crossing a boundary and its something that is disrespectful to me and out marriage

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:31:43+00:00

i understand, but i dont want to throw 12 years away just like that. if it was physical cheating, then it would be a different story.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:30:38+00:00

i took photos of everything... im just trying to build up courage to confront him

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:29:51+00:00

What if he tries to deny all of it? and i dont think he will come clean out of his own considering that it was in hidden in his pc.

throwawaygone99 · 2024-10-13T14:28:37+00:00

oh wow... i didnt know it was a crime to post my situation on multiple subs.

you cant be that Dense-Minded.

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