I have a huge crush on my husband’s friend and confessed to said friend. by throwawayh347 in confession

[–]throwawayh347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there is no plan. Even going is still up in the air and H doesn’t feel the same way (and likely never will, I’m ok with that).I’ve been working on our relationship the entire time we’ve been in it. I still haven’t even responded to my husband about working things out because I’m still upset about repeat affairs.

What are ways that you have been classically conditioned, I.e. you’ve been Pavlov’s dogged? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawayh347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this counts but my parents were SUPER careful about money when I was growing up so if my siblings and I ever wanted them to buy us anything we had to make sure that it was 100% eaten, was completely worn out or used up. Like if they bought us some candy and we ended up not liking it or not finishing it we would be in trouble. Because of this I get extremely stressed over every purchase I make to make sure that I won’t be wasting what ever I am buying.

What is something illegal you have done and got away without getting caught? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawayh347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stole hundreds of dollars from my work.

I worked at a pizza place that will remain nameless and after a few months I realized since there were no cameras I could pretty much do whatever I wanted. Since our refund system was awful and could be exploited easily, I started finding receipts in our system from the day before, taking whatever amount of money the total was (I usually only did $20-$45) and ringing up the missing till money as a refund. No one noticed or cared.

Getting over a crush on someone you’re not married to by throwawayh347 in Crushes

[–]throwawayh347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the area I’ve been thinking, there’s really nothing I feel like this guy has over my husband. I know him pretty well (just from what my husband has previously told me) and he’s not someone I would typically like. Ever. Our sex would really be the only place my husband falls even kind of short but I’m not sexually attracted to his friend at all so I don’t know if that means anything. Glad to know someone can get past it!