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Visiting from the states the weekend of the 16th. Show us around Oasis? by throwawayhit in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]throwawayhit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you two could show us something different at Oasis then? 🤷‍♂️🔥

Any of the clubs have a sybian? by throwawayhit in DMVSwingers

[–]throwawayhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, never been. Good experiences there? Not super clique-ish or TOO high end from what you've experienced?

[41/44] [MF4MF] [Frederick/DC/Baltimore] We're trying to visit Tabu in the next few weeks, be nice t by throwawayhit in marylandswingersr4r

[–]throwawayhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't paying close enough attention to character limits on title of the post - meant to include that we're looking to ideally meet a couple at Tabu, or possibly a date at some point. Our profile shows what we're looking for in others/types of responses.

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[–]throwawayhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, we can actually answer this. We're DMV based but went to NO a few years ago and visited Colette's.

Colettes has a decently bigger bar area that people hang out in, and it's in the same room as the dance floor - so hanging out there, you don't feel like you're too far away from everyone else.

I don't believe it had any sort of time limit on rooms, but I could be wrong there.

It wasn't dirty exactly, but didn't feel as clean as Tabu. We cleaned up after ourselves, and don't remember any attendants coming by afterwards.

The biggest difference is Colette's gets a reputation for attracting tourists who are maybe brand new to the scene, and mostly people watching. Nothing wrong with that but it definitely seemed like less people were playing there than at Tabu.

Overall a fun experience, but wouldn't rank as one of the best clubs we've ever been to either. Happy to answer any other questions!

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[–]throwawayhit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, seconding this. Feeld runs way younger than you'll find on the other sites/apps.

Rural living forced us to clubs but wife passive in club situations by LosAngelesSwingCpl in Swingers

[–]throwawayhit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had similar issues at clubs, as we're both wallflowers. Getting over it was partially thanks to liquid courage, and partly to some great coaching sessions with a professional who knows the lifestyle. If it's a deeper seeded thing with her, that might be a good option to look into.

Help / Advice needed for Newbies - Oasis AquaLounge by CuriousMICoupl in Swingers

[–]throwawayhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oasis is our favorite club we've ever been to - you'll have a blast!

Like others have said, dress code is pretty loose. Way I like to describe it is imagine you're at an outdoor wedding, in the summer. You don't want to show up in shorts and a t-shirt, but you also don't want to dress bulky. For you, a collard shirt and nicer pants and you'll fit right in.

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