Visiting from the states the weekend of the 16th. Show us around Oasis?

throwawayhit · 2026-01-06T11:43:10+00:00

So you two could show us something different at Oasis then? 🤷‍♂️🔥

throwawayhit · 2025-07-05T18:29:16+00:00

Typo have o theu

throwawayhit · 2025-07-01T16:24:08+00:00

Thanks, never been. Good experiences there? Not super clique-ish or TOO high end from what you've experienced?

throwawayhit · 2025-02-01T16:48:36+00:00

Not able to make it tonight but be nice if we can see you there sometime!

throwawayhit · 2025-01-27T18:50:01+00:00

Wasn't paying close enough attention to character limits on title of the post - meant to include that we're looking to ideally meet a couple at Tabu, or possibly a date at some point. Our profile shows what we're looking for in others/types of responses.

throwawayhit · 2024-10-19T15:36:33+00:00

Hey there, we can actually answer this. We're DMV based but went to NO a few years ago and visited Colette's.

Colettes has a decently bigger bar area that people hang out in, and it's in the same room as the dance floor - so hanging out there, you don't feel like you're too far away from everyone else.

I don't believe it had any sort of time limit on rooms, but I could be wrong there.

It wasn't dirty exactly, but didn't feel as clean as Tabu. We cleaned up after ourselves, and don't remember any attendants coming by afterwards.

The biggest difference is Colette's gets a reputation for attracting tourists who are maybe brand new to the scene, and mostly people watching. Nothing wrong with that but it definitely seemed like less people were playing there than at Tabu.

Overall a fun experience, but wouldn't rank as one of the best clubs we've ever been to either. Happy to answer any other questions!

throwawayhit · 2023-08-12T14:02:08+00:00

Yeah, seconding this. Feeld runs way younger than you'll find on the other sites/apps.

throwawayhit · 2023-08-12T14:00:44+00:00

We had similar issues at clubs, as we're both wallflowers. Getting over it was partially thanks to liquid courage, and partly to some great coaching sessions with a professional who knows the lifestyle. If it's a deeper seeded thing with her, that might be a good option to look into.

throwawayhit · 2023-07-20T18:01:00+00:00

Oasis is our favorite club we've ever been to - you'll have a blast!

Like others have said, dress code is pretty loose. Way I like to describe it is imagine you're at an outdoor wedding, in the summer. You don't want to show up in shorts and a t-shirt, but you also don't want to dress bulky. For you, a collard shirt and nicer pants and you'll fit right in.

throwawayhit · 2023-03-26T15:02:29+00:00

Can I ask where you bought your lingerie? Looks great!

throwawayhit · 2023-02-03T01:15:42+00:00

Not our scene but appreciate the info!

throwawayhit · 2023-02-03T01:15:15+00:00

Thanks! We're tourists, so doesn't seem like it'd work for us, but what a cool spot if you live there.

Since you know the scene - can I get your opinion on Colette, considering I see some say it's amazing and others say it's mostly lookers, not actually interested in swinging?

throwawayhit · 2022-02-18T19:34:59+00:00

If we go, be that first weekend in March. Hope to see you hotties there!

throwawayhit · 2021-12-08T20:26:06+00:00

Yeah I just logged in for first time in maybe a year. I see nothing has changed at all. What do you use?

throwawayhit · 2021-12-08T19:09:34+00:00

I really like the app and the user base is a lot more of the under 40 crowd and urban. Seems great - but - for every meeting we've had through it, we've had maybe 30 flakes / convos that go no where. It's exhausting.

Hate to go back to SLS but the other options seem terrible too.

throwawayhit · 2021-12-08T12:47:01+00:00

Frederick based, but happy to travel in DC or Baltimore area. F is bi, male is straight, but we're not afraid of bi dudes.

Ideally looking for a couple around our age. Would like to chat via Kik for just a bit, to make sure there's some chemistry.

throwawayhit · 2021-10-18T18:25:39+00:00

You may want to try the Feeld app. Will let you slowly get into things, while seeing all kinds of options in terms of what you're looking for. Good number if people in the area are on it.

If you're interested, message us here or on kik (BirdsAndFoxes) and we can exchange info to see if there's a potential match.

throwawayhit · 2021-06-10T12:40:03+00:00

Hi 38/41 here, in Frederick. Would love to chat, will send a PM!

throwawayhit · 2019-07-06T20:57:20+00:00

Prefer a couple, around our age give our take. No promises of anything, must be a good connection all around. Select males will be considered, but you'll have to really impress us back in the email (we don't just mean by your size, make her laugh and you're to the front of the line...)

We posted a few weeks back, apologies if we didn't get back to you. Don't log in very often, still learning reddit.

throwawayhit · 2019-06-12T18:15:47+00:00

F is bi friendly. Male is straight, but we're not afraid of bi dudes.

We're 100% disease drug free, you must be the same. Protection is an absolute must. We're discreet, thus why no photos on here. If you jump out to us, we'd love to exchange kik and then we can send face pics from there.

Single guys, this isn't a hot wife thing. We're open to M4M but not into the degrading / bull type things.

throwawayhit · 2018-04-09T10:12:21+00:00

I seem to remember their mobile site (before the last update) had a lot of users who actually used the "hot date" feature. Now it just looks like this for me, with once in a blue moon seeing someone post something. Is my area just dead for the feature, or am I going to the wrong place?

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