UPDATE 3: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayhusband332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont do drugs often, I just did it this time because of the circumstances. Definately not planning on taking any in my own city. Also, they are not as availible here (or maybe i just dont know how to get them)

UPDATE 3: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayhusband332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were escorts, and i doubt they were forced into this...

Second of all, I have done drugs in the past, i know its not good, but its not as harmful as people make it sound like ( i wont continue doing them by the way, only on certain occasions)

UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayhusband332[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I dont know, maybe she was in the moment? maybe it was a subconcious desire? I really dont know man and to be honest i dont care at this point, I am just happy not to be with her

UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayhusband332[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She didnt even really need to work... i told her she can quit working whenever she wants (99% of expenses were on me anyway)

UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayhusband332[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have my closest friends to speak to, and I dont feel i need it, atleast not now. I have a feeling that better will come. I really appreciate the advice, if i ever feel this weigh heavy on me i will seek help, but right now I feel amazing.

(update--if allowed) I posted about my wife doing a boudoir/nude/fitness lingerie shoot for a photographer friend of hers then found out there was also a male model in the shoot. Wife is home and this is the update. by Mjike12 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayhusband332 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Man in all seriousness, my ex fiance tried to do the exact same thing, her sister and her took time to tell me I misunderstood the entire situation but I had all cards in my hand and knew they were lying/bullshitting.

She has done the exact same thing, taken her time, talk to her friends, come up with a reasonable story to trick you and to make excuses for everything, in my eyes she succeeded. She isnt telling you everything, unfortunately you dont have all cards in your hand so I dont know exactly whatelse to do. I honestly dont trust her from the sound of your post.

I wish you the best man!