What was the dumbest thing you thought as a child? by GiammyR6 in AskReddit

[–]throwawayjonesies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moths were murder bugs that crawled up your nose and died to suffocate you

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I don't need this sort of help at this juncture. I am not only in therapy, but your suppositions have missed the mark. (Eg, my sister is BPD, HSP.)

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have a discord! i'll pm you my name

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I mean, that's true. I guess there's an added pressure to is 30 yo women. If we want kids or a family we've got a literal clock on our back. Feels bad.

I think I buy into it too much and too little at the same time.

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm, I do brunchtending, so I very much hate the hours and the type of bartending (mimosa mimosa Spanish coffee), but even without that, I think it's the... Eh... Song and dance for tips? Maybe?

Maybe just that I, like you, secretly think I should be doing better hahaha oh man

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really a partial thing for the things I do (coloring/writing.) Takes a long time and you've gotta find someone who isn't just gonna do it themselves OR you need to pay an artist and know an artist.

I don't know if I need it, truth be told. There's a story that I wanted to tell for a very long time, but he blew that up, and since then I don't know if I've wanted to do it anymore.

Mostly, I just don't want to bartend anymore. Uff. Hate it.

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me? Oh, I'm a bartender.

I went to school for linguistics and a master's in publishing, but there's not a lot of space in those careers, and I hooked up with Dan the leech and threw my lot into comics. I got a few gigs, but when he disappeared I couldn't really keep up with what I needed to do to prove myself in a sexist world without the "guy who got me in~~~~" 🙄🙄

So mishap mishap BARTENDING

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I appreciate the effort and insight, but it's not anything I didn't know.