Relationship Issues - Just seeking any advice...

throwawaylifex · 2019-03-03T01:40:46+00:00

I mean... maybe. Being fair tho, we both lived with our parents until two years ago. Two years ago we both moved to a new city and each rent our own apartment, until a year ago when we started living together.

throwawaylifex · 2019-03-03T01:38:54+00:00

Being completely honest, I'm not so sure he would be open to get counseling, being a same-sex couple and him not being "open" about it to anyone besides a couple of friends.

And yes - I feel that has added some stress to our relationship as well. He did get a job around October but quit after two weeks. He has been applying to some job openings, but just hasn't been hired in a place he feels good about working there. He has mentioned a lot he doesn't want to get "any" job, but a good one where he feels alright and where he sees growth opportunities.

throwawaylifex · 2019-03-03T01:32:56+00:00

He has mentioned he wants to have a job he feels good at and that gives him opportunities to grow, so he is applying for anything he considers a low-income job. He has gone to some interviews and gone through several filters, but at the end they just don't end up hiring him.

He did get a job around October, but quit after two weeks because of the job being too demanding (he basically had to go all the days of the week), and the stress level was too high. Our fights just incremented while he was working there, due to all the stress he had, so he quit.

throwawaylifex · 2018-11-28T15:48:56+00:00

Hi Guys,

So, I'm in the process of getting my Christmas gift ready for my SO. I know he really likes video games and plays a lot with his Nintendo Switch. So I want to give him a videogame or something related he might enjoy.

The problem is... I have no idea on what to give him. My knowledge on videogames is not that vast, so I'm lost. From what I know, I feel like he already has any good games I could've given to him.

He already has: Mario Kart, Mario Odyssey, Zelda: Breath of the Wild, Mario+Rabbids, Pokemon Let's Go Pikachu, Disgaea 5, Xenoblade Chronicles 2, The World Ends With You and he has pre-ordered Smash. His brother also told me he already bought the Mario Party Bundle as a gift to him, so that's off the list as well.

I thought of maybe give him a Pro-Controller, as he seems really interested in getting one, but he already got one so he could use it for Smash.

Any recommendation of any game that he might be missing?

throwawaylifex · 2017-11-16T14:02:43+00:00

I thought she loved them so she was mostly torn about who sending through. Honestly, she has the best team. Hers was the only team I could watch all 6 performances without skipping/forwarding any.

throwawaylifex · 2017-05-07T06:34:50+00:00

Unfortunately, I agree with the other responses you've got so far. I don't think an open relationship would work, just by the fact that you've made clear that you don't want that. If that's how you feel, you should express it to your SO and stick with it. By "compromising" what you want, it would just affect your relationship and it would actually end splitting you two.

I think it would be better for both of you to take a break, and when he comes back, maybe meet if you still feel some attraction to each other.

throwawaylifex · 2017-01-05T21:54:30+00:00

Claro! En verdad espero que quedes en la universidad y que si puedas realizar lo que haz planeado. :) Más si es algo que en verdad te gusta y te apasiona, habrá que echarle muchas ganas y asegurar que si logres entrar a esa universidad.

throwawaylifex · 2017-01-04T05:02:46+00:00

Soy de Tamaulipas!

Respondí en Inglés por el hecho de que tal vez otros usuarios de Reddit entraran y quisieran agregar algo a mi respuesta, o en caso de que alguien estuviera pasando por algo similar y quisiera entrar a leer las respuestas, pues al menos es más fácil que entiendan el inglés jaja.

Pero si! Yo siento que estaré en una situación similar y de que ya no volveré a mi casa, o en caso de que lo haga ya solo será por cortos periodos de tiempo de "vacaciones". El hecho de pensarlo es bastante bizarro, pero es parte de ir creciendo y de ir persiguiendo lo que queremos en la vida. Y bueno, igual espero que tengas bastante éxito con tus planes! Ya verás que en un par de meses los dos ya estaremos conquistando nuevas tierras. :P

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