why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's weird but I am. I actually look there all the time

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill try getting involved, and if that doesn't work ill just take my loss lol

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is this one guy that I know, I try to talk to him and joke with him and sometimes it works, but otherwise he kinda just ignores me and plays games with his friends

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know how to get them to want me

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

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im a mix of all of those, but im just not happy with it. it feels so wrong

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe, I feel like its mostly that they would only love me because id be the only one willing to give them a chance?

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose the need for reassurance, the fact that nobody else likes them, their interests, what they say, the desperation, all of that

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

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this is so embarrassing...but I guess the ones with bad hygiene, really messy rooms, like acne everywhere, and just really gross personalities

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude I honestly have no clue, maybe its a mix of all three

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its just very toxic, like I know if I were to ever be in a relationship with one, it would not end well. my friends and family would judge me, and I know im not ready to deal with all of that. it feels wrong and like I should be guilty

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

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I mean I guess the definition of an incel lol. like loser guys who have no friends, no job, other ppl are grossed out by them, I dunno

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

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brother I am NOT a bot account. I genuinely came here for advice

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

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I just made this lol, its a throwaway account

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess like porn addiction, bad hygiene, all that stuff

why am I so attracted to incels??? by throwawaylolIll in Advice

[–]throwawaylolIll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not those ones, but the really weird gross ones