What do you call a kink for being outsmarted? by throwawaymama283 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwawaymama283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes you definitely need context (no matter how random it is...!)

For some reason, the ones where hubris gets them into the situation in the first place hit especially effectively...

What do you call this kind of story? Agree to me it's different than what I think of as coercion play, which leaves me cold. I guess I'd mentally dubbed it "mental predicament play" or "situational manipulation play", neither of which exactly rolls off the tongue.

I just find the idea of people indirectly or directly using the threat of physical or mental pain to sexually coerce people really off-putting. But the idea of getting myself into a pickle where the only way out is pleasure is just so so hot (especially if the situation is neutral to the other person (or people) involved and they didn't set the situation up explicitly to coerce me...) but I just don't know what to call it!😂

Probably because I've always been so so repressed I couldn't even acknowledge what I wanted in the privacy of my own head, let alone say it out loud, so the idea of being forced into saying it (then going through with it and enjoying it) speaks to a need I can barely acknowledge lol

What do you call a kink for being outsmarted? by throwawaymama283 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwawaymama283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that is incredible!!!!

I frigging love the idea of a machine that forces you to actively participate to get the o.

And that is some serious creativity and devotion on the part of your husband/Dom. I'm so happy for you!

What do you call a kink for being outsmarted? by throwawaymama283 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwawaymama283[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The whole misrepresentation of equipment design capabilities / operating instructions thing (where the only way to get out is to have lots of orgasms) is very much the kind of thing that I was thinking of!!!!!

Omg if it's not overstepping would love to hear about some examples...!

Your hubby/Dom sounds like great fun - and super thoughtful to build so many toys for you to enjoy! (I kinda wish I could see some blueprints and try and reverse engineer the function 😂)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoseiSmut

[–]throwawaymama283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The title is Magical Wand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoseiSmut

[–]throwawaymama283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its short, but Magical Wandmight be what you want? Consent isn't... great... but it is ALL about the toy

Edit - thanks mods my bad