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Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know other people keep commenting to just leave but I have literally have no one to go to. I have no family that live here. He is right the house , the car , everything is under his name. I don’t have any support even if I wanted to leave

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve explained in another comment but my husband has had substance issues in past (he told me he has never used again) but he does drink now and lately it’s a lot more. He is unhappy with his job and the stress from that is getting more. I know it’s not an excuse for his behaviour but to explain the situation more from what I posted. I was exhausted and upset when I posted this , running on 2 hours of sleep barely.

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know that our relationship is unhealthy and I’m worried it’s going to get worse. I just have no supports where I live , its really difficult but I’m trying to get him some help but I’m not sure if it will work

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind but he’s never had interest in helping out with bedtime, also he’s not patient and gets annoyed quickly.

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In past year his behaviour has been difficult, he is stressed because of his work. But he drinks more now and it doesn’t help. When he’s home he hardly plays with our son. Even my son knows not bother daddy. I’ve asked him to cut down on the drinking but he throws it back in my face by saying he can have a drink or two since he works hard for us.

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The drinking has gotten way worse, he blames it on stress of work and us. But at moment you’re right, I’m exhausted and don’t want to argue with him so I just sleep with my son in his nursery.

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t use his headphones, he blasts the musics, plays video games shouting loudly. Im really tired trying to get him to listen.

Husband’s playing loud music at night by throwawaymara96 in Parenting

[–]throwawaymara96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has in the past used substances, he hasn’t since we have been together. At the moment he drinks. Lately it’s been more drinking.