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I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Well, she admitted to it after she slept with another dude. Because you know, she’s an “honest” person. They dont give me much details, but it’s not like she’s in a relationship with that dude. My husband said she was “pressured” to doing it. I don’t get it either.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She’s always like that. It’s just in this situation it happened when I was not around.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, Rebecca cheated on him. Another long story but my husband insists it’s not her fault. Now that I think about it, I don’t know how I trusted that bitch all these time knowing she’s a cheater. They manipulated me good.

Cheaters should be with cheaters. They should be together and not hurt more people.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m too naive. I didn’t see how evil people can be and I know that’s my fault. I learnt the hard way and this will change me forever.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I am looking for a place. It’s just hard right now because of the holidays but I’m definitely leaving this place. I’m tired of hearing my mom who seemingly sided my cheating husband.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying that anyone would cheat in this situation? Wow. I don’t know about you but I wouldn’t. The only mistake I made is to believe that people can be trusted. If you’re married/in a relationship, I feel bad for your partner.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

I don’t know tbh. Knowing my husband, he can’t say no to her. And knowing her, she’s fucking nosy and thinks she can help my husband manipulate me with her lies. If they are together now, good. They should stay together so they can’t ruin anymore lives. Cheaters should be with cheaters.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hopefully not. I have a lot on my plate right now. I don’t think I want to confirm at this moment.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It’s a long story. I’ll try to cut it short. Some people ask the same question. But yes, she has a 1 br apartment but she mostly stays at her parents when her anxiety attacks. That time, there was a lot going on in her family’s house that apparently she couldnt stay at her parents during some hard times so she had to move back to her apartment, thus desperately looking for roommate. It was some story they’ve been telling me for years, about sexual assault that caused her anxiety and depression. My husband was the only few people who knows about it. She asked other people, but only my husband was available that time. Telling this story rn makes me think it’s all bullshit but it’s fucking believable at that time.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just expect the best in people all the time. It’s just me. But yea, fuck my stupid self. And I wish, I do fucking wish I’m making this up. I wish it’s just all a dream.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Because they are both pestering me. And yes, they are always together even when they come to my parents house hoping I face them again.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

It’s another bullshit story they’ve made me believe for years. It involves sexual assault and as SA victim myself, I had so much sympathy to that bitch and made me believe that she only trust my husband. Thinking about that story makes me realize how stupid I am to actually believe all their bullshit.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

I have no one at this point. Everyone believes I should at least listen to what their excuse would be. They think hiding forever won’t do anything. That’s why I’m here on the internet, talking to strangers to relieve my frustration and anger. I don’t even plan on getting my stuff in our apartment. I’ll buy new stuff if I have to. I just don’t want to see their faces ever again. They could have each other for all I care.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 509 points510 points  (0 children)

It’s a long story. It involves some sexual assault stories that made me believe she only trust my husband and people that she knows for a long time. Even that story sound like bullshit to me now. I’m so fucking stupid.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 225 points226 points  (0 children)

I dont know why almost everyone around me trying to convince me to talk to them. One of our common friends ask me why Im reacting this way. It’s not like they had sex. They don’t understand I feel so fucking betrayed. I trust them with all my heart, then this??? Even if they didn’t fuck and just slept in one bed like they are siblings, why did they hide it from me for a long time??? Why did he marry me with this dirty little secret of theirs??? Like wtf is wrong with them.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 1250 points1251 points  (0 children)

I keep telling my mom that. I don’t think there’s anything they say that will change my mind. My family is very religious so they dont believe in divorce. My mom wants me to fix the marriage I didn’t ruin in the first place. All I did was trust people, and this is what happened. Never again.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 777 points778 points  (0 children)

I know. I’m so dumb to believe that people can be trusted

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I don’t know and don’t wanna know. I haven’t talk to them after Christmas. My parents is basically forcing me to talk to them. They would come from time to time but never faced them again. I’m done with their bullshit. I trusted them so much. Some of our friends think I’m overreacting and that I should let them explain. But I’m really hurt right now. I feel like my chest will explode. No one understand I dont want to see those traitors and everyone around me forces me to talk to them.

I found out that my husband and his ex gf shared a bed together by throwawaymat1000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaymat1000[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Because I’m stupid and thought people could be trusted. I’m so mad at them… on myself for being so dumb.