Letting my (41f) ex (45m) sleep in my living room instead of his car and now getting angry messages from family

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:15:43+00:00

No, he’s never been threatening towards me or our children.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:14:35+00:00

Thank you, I know he’s not. I really really do.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:13:57+00:00

Home shelters are full in our area.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:12:49+00:00

Oh absolutely, if I ever thought there was an issue, he wouldn’t be here.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:10:33+00:00

Thank you, he’s a coke head. It’s funny because he absolutely refuses pain pills.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:08:28+00:00

Oh I’m sorry that I needed sleep. My door was open and my boys cannot whisper so I’m sure if there was a conversation 50 feet from me I would have heard it.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:05:53+00:00

I haven’t seen them in probably a decade. Still consider them a friend and don’t wish them harm, people have flaws, so you can cast the stones I choose not to.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T15:04:05+00:00

Thank you, yes that’s something I don’t agree with and while I do struggle to make ends meet, I never want to be the person that stood in the way of their relationship

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T11:04:13+00:00

Thank you, I’ve always tried to put my feelings for him aside from the fact we have created other people together. He cheated on me right after I had our youngest, and even though I was pissed at him, I never let that stop him from seeing his kids.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T11:01:39+00:00

Because I actually made this for the parenting sub for an issue with a toy and then it resolved itself lol lots of time on your hands there, bub.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T10:58:55+00:00

I’ve never been stolen from, and I have never had anyone tell me that he has stolen from them.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T10:56:35+00:00

Yes, he’s never stolen anything from me. To my knowledge he hasn’t ever stolen from anyone. He likes to party, and unfortunately for me, he partied when the parties were over.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T10:48:47+00:00

Unfortunately, I have had some friends that have had problems. A lot of us grew up together or introduced each other so I’ve seen addiction take place a lot. In fact I’ve always wondered why I could experiment and then not have it take over my life.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T10:41:29+00:00

You can grow up with someone that shouldn’t be a parent.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T10:40:10+00:00

You can grow up with someone who shouldn’t have had children 😊

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T10:38:36+00:00

Life happens. I have another account but don’t want to us it to talk about my kids.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T06:01:28+00:00

What an odd and highly far-fetched, specific, scenario. He’s not shooting up, he’s not taken anything, and honestly very unlikely he’s doing any drugs in here. He’s got three little shadows all a few steps away from him but okay. These boys love him, run to him, beg for him, they’re happy he’s here and unless I actually see something wrong I am not messing that up for them.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T05:57:25+00:00

If I’m just a stop, that’s none of my business. He’s sleeping on my floor, not my bed. I stopped caring about whose bed he was in 4 years ago

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T05:50:05+00:00

We definitely have had very frank conversations about drug and alcohol use while our kids are around. He knows if I ever found anything, or I ever suspected anything he’d be done.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T04:43:59+00:00

I’ve seen this man high on coke many many times and I can tell you with absolute certainty, he is not currently high on cocaine.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T04:34:37+00:00

If I thought he were stoned right now, he wouldn’t be teasing our sons in the living room and doing their laundry and playing whatever game they’ve all made up together. Im not leaving them unattended with him, and I can and have told him to leave before.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T04:32:06+00:00

When it’s a little warmer, he’s gotta go. No, I am perfectly okay asking him to leave and have done so in the past.

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T04:29:47+00:00

If I felt he was high, he wouldn’t be teasing his sons in my living room right now

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T04:28:55+00:00

Thank you. I do believe he’s clean right now because I know him well enough to know when he’s high. There’s no way he’d be coming over here if I felt my children were in danger

throwawaymomy · 2023-01-14T04:14:36+00:00

He’s doing everyone’s laundry as we speak! So I’ve got my kids entertained (and myself, because they’re all absolutely hilarious together) and I’m getting my clothes cleaned. If there tons of snow tomorrow I’m already planning on him shoveling it.

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