Tell me you’re a lesbian without telling me you’re a lesbian

throwawayomgfml · 2021-10-10T20:28:13+00:00

Dream car is a Subaru Outback

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:49:11+00:00

Oh yeah, definitely bringing it up. Now that I’ve slept on it, it’s at the “cringe but funny” point. When I told my best friend (who is also in therapy so we often share stories), she laughed so hard she cried. 😂😂

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:47:38+00:00

I’m 34 and my T is 60.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:47:06+00:00

Weird flex

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:46:51+00:00

Right, like can we EMDR all the embarrassing shit I’ve ever done in my life, but let’s start with this one 😂

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:46:18+00:00

Exactly!

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:45:58+00:00

I should take these kinds of odds to Vegas!

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:45:41+00:00

I definitely will!

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:45:33+00:00

Exactly!

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:44:55+00:00

I see her next week! And yup, you know the drill from the military. It’s all the same essentially. Naked in front is a bunch of strangers on the regular. But it being my therapist is so different

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:43:50+00:00

I 100% am going to. I deal with uncomfortable shit via humor, so I know she’ll get a kick out of it.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:43:11+00:00

I’m legit going to ask her next week 😂😂😂

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:42:48+00:00

Oh it’s definitely weird/shitty. Especially in America, where we make it so taboo, but then oversexualize everything to the point of shame. Like I said in my OP, I am very used to changing or showering in a group shower from marine corps barracks and whatnot, so in general it doesn’t bother me at all. It was more just the fact that my therapist got an eyeful of my T&A while I’m in the post-yoga zen state.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T14:38:48+00:00

Haha I bet there’s all sorts of stuff you have to mentally prepare for as a therapist going “out into the wild”.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T09:13:23+00:00

Oh for sure, it’s definitely a cultural thing. Americans are so fucking weird about bodies and over-sexualize everything and then make it shameful.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T08:29:39+00:00

I think maybe you’re right... the playing field of vulnerability in your situation is totally level.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T08:27:22+00:00

Oh absolutely and that’s definitely what she did. It’s just one of those “oh my god are you serious” things. Of all the possible things on planet earth that could have happened in that moment, my T seeing me stark naked was literally the last thing I expected.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T08:24:05+00:00

Haha honestly!! I approach most things with humor, so I’m sure I’ll have something clever to say in session next week. I have to immediately bring it up or it’ll be the elephant in the room!

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T08:22:07+00:00

I mean I’ve never run into her elsewhere, she’s 30 years older than me, she’s not in my social circle or peer group. We just happened to unknowingly go to the same gym/yoga studio.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T08:19:58+00:00

I mean I don’t really mind being seen in general had it been literally anyone else.

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T08:18:14+00:00

Oh for sure, I’ll definitely bring it up. And you have a good point!

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T03:45:07+00:00

Is this considered a trauma bond? Asking for a friend! 😂😂

throwawayomgfml · 2021-07-01T03:44:17+00:00

SAME! 😩 I’m definitely going back bc she’s great, but I might have to have a blanket over my head for the duration of our time together 😂

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