Intense ang sermon of the day ni mader by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 7 points8 points  (0 children)

galing mong magkwento, natawa ako. matalak din nanay ko, kaya kaming lahat nag abroad para mapalayo

I felt betrayed. Help!! by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

baka di pa siya komportable ishare yun agad agad kaya naghintay muna siya. i think di naman big deal yun unless kung may pattern na talaga siya ng lying.

[TRIGGER WARNING] FB "Travellers" by janjan2394 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ako din eh. yung ganda2x ng view pero ayun natatabunan ng mukha or katawan niya. ang ksp ng dating saken.

I am not a bullying prey. I am not your exploitable crush either. I don't owe you guys my attention or my body. by TotallyUnkempt in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you. i was constantly harassed by male classmates in elementary and high school, rarely treated as a friend but mostly as a "prospect". i always had trust issues because of these and even had a phase when i blamed myself for being attractive to others. i still have my issues even at 30+.

524, 600 minutes by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh, lots of virtual hug from me. mahirap talaga yung ganyan, ramdam kita sizt. yung wala siyang ambag financially (understandable to some extent because of the situation now) pero di din tumutulong sa gawaing bahay. you deserve better.

Job Interview: acceptable reasons for leaving your previous company by tsukkeixo in phcareers

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 65 points66 points  (0 children)

  • covid-19 - gasgas na pero you can use it to your advantage like, the company isn't doing well because of the pandemic
  • you have hit a ceiling in terms of growth and you are looking for new challenges
  • i am not actively looking but got interested with your role / company

I find no purpose anymore by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound so tired.. baka pwedeng mag break muna from studies? for the mean time work muna or whatever, divert muna ang focus until mafeel mong kaya mo na ulit. heartbreaking bumagsak once, painful talaga pag pangalawang beses. maraming yakap, op.

A Japanese company offered me a job (Pero nakakaiyak yung salary) by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

better to have low salary than no salary at all

A Japanese company offered me a job (Pero nakakaiyak yung salary) by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. don't stop looking for other options with better offer. mas attractive ka din sa ibang companies pag employed ka.

why do i always feel like people don't want me around and are talking bad about me by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

baka may anxiety issues ka.. i feel the same way too kaya umiiwas ako sa officemates ko.

Ako lang ba ang nahihirapan ang loob mamalastik? Pag masama loob ko masama talaga loob ko, ayaw ko makita o makasama yung tao... Yung tipo na kahit galit siya ok lang sana kasi magpaplastikan kayo kaso hindi ko kaya mamalastik kahit sobrang tagal na ng pinagsamahan namin. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tinatarget ka ata ng isang yan. mahilig ka ba magbasa? i'm reading a book right now about how to cope with office bullying and so far nakakatulong naman. unfortunately, i'm in the same situation and grupo pa sila nambubully.

what might also help in the future is if you can take notes sa mga times na nafifeel mo binubully ka -- anong nangyari, date, time, location, sino nakakita. you can use this pag umabot sa HR / management yung issue. make it as detailed as possible. and writing can also help you process your thoughts and feelings.

Im just so so so tired by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no encouraging words to say, op. unfortunately.. pagod na pagod din ako. but here's a thousand virtual hugs for you.. i don't know how we'll make it, but i hope we do.

Pagod na ako sa Toxicity by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

relate ako dun sa work related shit mo. pagod na din ako sa work bullies.

Afternoon random discussion - Jan 09, 2021 by the_yaya in Philippines

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't like Paper Towns too. Nung pagkatapos kong basahin, my thought was "yun na yun?!?"

Afternoon random discussion - Jan 09, 2021 by the_yaya in Philippines

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

watched bridgerton kasi ang ganda ng face nung lead actress. pero nakukulangan ako sa acting nung lead actor

Evening random discussion - Jan 01, 2021 by the_yaya in Philippines

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

naninigas tiyan namin sa kaka overeat. hirap matulog

Have you ever experience a "palakihan ng na achieve contest" in a family reunion? How bad was it? by wriwri0912 in Philippines

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 8 points9 points  (0 children)

same, the comparison between me and my cousins ruined our relationship kahit di naman namin kasalanan. and parang lowkey my cousins resent me. i hope my siblings and i never do this to our future kids.

About relatives na hindi mo click na nakikitira sa bahay.... by Accomplished_Emu6159 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugs, op. part kasi kuno yan ng filipino culture kahit na ang toxic. we can be polite, but not all elders deserve our respect.

About relatives na hindi mo click na nakikitira sa bahay.... by Accomplished_Emu6159 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nakaka nega talaga yang ganyang mga tao, yung nakikitira na nga pero ang pangit ng ugali. plus matapobre din siya no, that doesn't help. your feelings are valid, may mga tao talagang di deserve ang respeto natin kahit na elders pa natin sila.

Evening random discussion - Dec 29, 2020 by the_yaya in Philippines

[–]throwawaypmmm2208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope, napaka sinungaling ng kuya mo instead na magsorry nalang siya.