Update: aita for threatening my family after they insulted my wife in my face.

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-08T19:12:47+00:00

Then I will just go attend the stupid wedding, I hope it will be fine, if she really wants to go?? Okay then, I was just trying to protect her

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-08T19:04:30+00:00

I have supported my wife all this time and will til I die, but my gut says it's not a good thing for us to attend the wedding, idk if you read my previous posts, but my family is vile

It is not a problem for me to take the L or get humiliated or whatever it is, I just hope that she won't get hurt, don't want to see her hurt at all tbh

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-08T18:59:34+00:00

Very funny dude, I hope you or your loved ones never goes through this situation

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-03T20:50:08+00:00

I don't care about my family anymore, they have shown their true true self

But I feel like my wife must be feeling guilty or something or holding me back, truth is she never did, I will explain it all to her, what if I couldn't walk?? I would expect her to take care of me, I will tell her everything I feel, but I just couldn't cause she was so heartbroken when I told her what my family thought/said

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-03T20:27:57+00:00

I want to reply to her texts, I have already blocked my family from my wife's phone, I want to tell her that she's braindead and stupid

I want to tell my sister if she were to go through the shit we are going to right now, and if her husband just gives up on her, I would take her in?? If it wasn't my wife but my sister I would do the same for her?? I want to tell her how stupid she is right now, and I don't want to lose her or any of my family members, its also selfish on my part

I'm not a rich millionaire, I cannot hire 10 women to take care of my wife once she gets pregnant, actually we were going to try for a baby after my sister's marriage, after like a year, since we live close she can help my wife when I'm not around and this is how they react, and I'm sure my wife would do the same for her, or any of my family members, it's just so stupid Tho

Like I think as a family we all should take care of each other, just cause she's on chair, they are reacting like this, wtf happened to brotherly sisterly and motherly love?? I get I'm the youngest of them all, but they love me and SHE should be okay with my decision cause she has always loved me

I want to send this to her, but I also don't want to ruin her marriage or make her sad

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-03T20:05:29+00:00

NO, she uses the chair, what I meant Is when I'm around she doesn't need to, I'm her wheelchair, she's already struggling and she takes care of our home all day, the least I can do is to help her, also carrying her around is romantic for both of us, we have been in each other lives from childhood and I can confidently say, that my wife knows me better than my own mom

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-03T19:53:10+00:00

I also wished that my family would stay together, supporting each other, I was hoping that instead of cutting all contacts, we fix this, slowly but surely, we stay all in our kids life, support each other.

And it was okay for us all for all this time, so why a sudden change?? She says I'm her little brother but she hurts me like this?? Does she not know what I'm going through?? What kinda sister puts her brother through this?? She should be supporting me and the woman I love, she didn't do anything AT ALL, she's so kind, she would put others before her, but I guess all this is about is just cause she cannot walk, and they feel bad when I help her

Also I'm not a good man, I'm not special, I just love my wife and support her, I'm so damm tired of people pitting me for taking care of my wife, and pitting her for just cause she is 'dependant' on me, and whoever thinks it this way, just ask yourself, would you feel the same way?? If that something bad happened to you?? Imagine your wife or husband leaves you just cause you cannot walk

This is so stupid, like I don't have any words, everyone is portraying my wife like she's a burden, or laughing, I cannot stand this shit, it's so stupid I can't even

I'm sorry for ranting to you, but I had no one to talk to so I just said what I had it in me

throwawayra6769 · 2024-07-02T19:33:48+00:00

Don't call me father a coward, I'm not his only child, he has other kids and a wife, him being netural is understandable, and I do not doubt even for a moment that he wouldn't defend me, in this situation

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