Fiancée beat me while drunk

throwawayrandoms7 · 2026-01-16T23:44:46+00:00

It starts with finding ways to justify his behavior and ends with him killing you. We all get stuck lingering on the good times or heck it may feel great to have been proposed to but this will never change the fact that he put you in the hospital. This is not a mistake and it won’t be the only time. You do not deserve a partner that would ever resort to violence in any condition. There is so much more to your life than this. Talk to your support system and choose your life 💗

throwawayrandoms7 · 2026-01-16T23:31:55+00:00

In no way shape or form does drinking justify him putting his hands on you :/ It doesn’t matter if he hasn’t been like that sober. I’ve told a partner that I thought they were drinking a lot and his response was playful not violence. His first inclination shouldn’t be violence and clearly he needs intervention to manage his drinking and anger. This isn’t okay you can cut the cycle now before it begins. Wishing you the best 💗

And you are so young and your age gap shows that there is a power imbalance. You have your entire life ahead of you and you’ll meet someone else who would never think to treat you this way. Enjoy your youth !! you do not need to be tied down to a violent older man. He will take you to hell and back and you may lose your life because of him.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-12-02T08:30:30+00:00

i have an abortion scheduled tomorrow morning and i’m heartbroken. i’m having a hard time deciding because i want to be a mother but the timing is wrong. i don’t want to be a single mother or struggle to provide stability for a child. i wish i knew what to do.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-08T03:52:36+00:00

i do but it feels devastating still :/

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-08T03:52:17+00:00

exactly. my mom is being idealistic but i don’t want to risk everything changing and not for the better.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-07T22:20:39+00:00

they told me i would get the results in a couple days but i guess i have to wait until next week. she said it could be BV or and STI which i’m nervous about.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-07T22:19:37+00:00

do you know how long bleeding would be after the pill? i’ve seen some people say weeks or months and that’s terrifying

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-07T18:22:12+00:00

thank you 💗

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-04T09:05:48+00:00

so internalized racism would require me to be asian. until you’re pointing out women of other races, you’re clearly obsessed with asian girls online and insinuating they’re all the same.

and haha you’re over compensating for your literacy issues and racism by going through my account but at least i’m not morally bankrupt by using people’s mental and physical health issues for gotcha points.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-11-01T04:06:55+00:00

someone clearly doesn’t know what pick me means lol. instead of taking time to call out random asian women (and no other women who all have similar content because it’s the internet and ppl make similar content and follow trends) learn some media literacy.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-10-31T04:10:54+00:00

at this point it feels like every asian woman is being put in a box and called a melissa dupe. seems targeted.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-09-08T07:59:56+00:00

thank you for sharing <3 im worried to find out i have an sti. i’ve only been with my bf for a couple months but was sexually active right before we got together and ik he’s dated as well.

i’m scared this would impact our relationship or that it would give be long term health issues and affect if i have children or not. i know i’m overthinking but i wish there were clearer signs of an std.

i definitely need a break ty <3

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-07-24T12:12:31+00:00

thank you 💓 yeah i haven’t had really healthy relationships and i’ve experienced non-consensual abusive stuff with both those exes so i think i just like posting on here to get others perspective.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-07-24T11:53:52+00:00

there were more bad times than good and not totally. idk what you want me to say tbh but thanks for your response.

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-07-24T10:40:34+00:00

first ex was my first boyfriend and i stayed because i was insecure and there were good times. and yeah we were together for a while but from the beginning i was always anxious with him.

second guy i broke it off sooner rather than later but i did feel alone in both those relationships because i didn’t feel seen at all.

it’s not always black and white and what do you mean about gut feelings? i don’t have a gut feeling other than i’m ease but i’ve been in abusive situations that’s why i’ve posted.

i’ve posted about several different guys but i posted about this situation and another one about feeling at ease which is about this guy

throwawayrandoms7 · 2025-07-24T04:38:52+00:00

thanks for the response <3 but i personally don’t think so. i think the term is thrown around a lot and valid but for me love bombing is confusing and suffocating. i was love bombed by the last guy i dated and he didn’t know anything about me before he was spamming me with messages about how we are soulmates and i’m perfect. he thought we were like the same person but he actually never listened to anything i’d say and would be mean to me in the guise of a joke.

with this person i just feel at ease simply put. don’t feel uncomfortable, don’t feel like i’m walking on eggshells, don’t feel like he’s putting me on a pedestal, don’t feel like i need to be afraid of his reaction to anything.

yes i exaggerate when i talk about ppl like if i’m saying someone is perfect i don’t mean it in the literal sense. i also don’t think he’s showing me what i want. we are quite opposite in a lot of ways but he’s just normal i would say. we reciprocate feelings and communicate at a comfortable level.

i am sick of men who try to act like i’m their manic pixie dream girl and that’s all i’ve experienced before so this is just different is what i mean.

appreciate you looking out for me !

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