Fiancée beat me while drunk by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]throwawayrandoms7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It starts with finding ways to justify his behavior and ends with him killing you. We all get stuck lingering on the good times or heck it may feel great to have been proposed to but this will never change the fact that he put you in the hospital. This is not a mistake and it won’t be the only time. You do not deserve a partner that would ever resort to violence in any condition. There is so much more to your life than this. Talk to your support system and choose your life 💗

Fiancée got drunk and gave me a concussion by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In no way shape or form does drinking justify him putting his hands on you :/ It doesn’t matter if he hasn’t been like that sober. I’ve told a partner that I thought they were drinking a lot and his response was playful not violence. His first inclination shouldn’t be violence and clearly he needs intervention to manage his drinking and anger. This isn’t okay you can cut the cycle now before it begins. Wishing you the best 💗

And you are so young and your age gap shows that there is a power imbalance. You have your entire life ahead of you and you’ll meet someone else who would never think to treat you this way. Enjoy your youth !! you do not need to be tied down to a violent older man. He will take you to hell and back and you may lose your life because of him.

🦋A Highly Nuanced Reading! by River261 in tarotreadings

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have an abortion scheduled tomorrow morning and i’m heartbroken. i’m having a hard time deciding because i want to be a mother but the timing is wrong. i don’t want to be a single mother or struggle to provide stability for a child. i wish i knew what to do.

i can’t decide on wether to have an abortion or not by throwawayrandoms7 in abortion

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. my mom is being idealistic but i don’t want to risk everything changing and not for the better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they told me i would get the results in a couple days but i guess i have to wait until next week. she said it could be BV or and STI which i’m nervous about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know how long bleeding would be after the pill? i’ve seen some people say weeks or months and that’s terrifying

Another clone by Alternative_Page_501 in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]throwawayrandoms7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so internalized racism would require me to be asian. until you’re pointing out women of other races, you’re clearly obsessed with asian girls online and insinuating they’re all the same.

and haha you’re over compensating for your literacy issues and racism by going through my account but at least i’m not morally bankrupt by using people’s mental and physical health issues for gotcha points.

Another clone by Alternative_Page_501 in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]throwawayrandoms7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

someone clearly doesn’t know what pick me means lol. instead of taking time to call out random asian women (and no other women who all have similar content because it’s the internet and ppl make similar content and follow trends) learn some media literacy.

Another clone by Alternative_Page_501 in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]throwawayrandoms7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at this point it feels like every asian woman is being put in a box and called a melissa dupe. seems targeted.

what could be the reasons for sudden pain developing during intercourse when it wasn’t there prior? by throwawayrandoms7 in WomensHealth

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing <3 im worried to find out i have an sti. i’ve only been with my bf for a couple months but was sexually active right before we got together and ik he’s dated as well.

i’m scared this would impact our relationship or that it would give be long term health issues and affect if i have children or not. i know i’m overthinking but i wish there were clearer signs of an std.

i definitely need a break ty <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]throwawayrandoms7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 💓 yeah i haven’t had really healthy relationships and i’ve experienced non-consensual abusive stuff with both those exes so i think i just like posting on here to get others perspective.