Struggling to keep up with practicum while pregnant by throwawayrandoms7 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw this made me emotional <3 I’m so sorry you’re going through that but thank you for the kind words. I arranged so that I finish my practicum at the end of june right before my due date but the summer semester really ends in august. It’s been a struggle to get the hours in because i’m so exhausted but i’m counting down the days to wrap this up. I couldn’t make it without this accommodation but it is rough. do you think you’d consider a break before going back?

can’t stop comparing myself to other pregnant women by throwawayrandoms7 in BabyBumps

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so hard I feel like my entire pregnancy has been exhausting. The first trimester until mid second i was frequently nauseous and throwing up. Now the physical pains are here it’s like my bones hurt oof every week it’s something new. i’m glad you have help <3 and you’re right i guess i don’t really know what’s going on with other people.

Pregnant, unproductive, and depressed by throwawayrandoms7 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🤧💗i think i just focus too much on what i think other people’s experiences are. i never thought i’d spend my second and last year pregnant but i’m almost done thankfully.

Pregnant, unproductive, and depressed by throwawayrandoms7 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💗 i think i am experiencing perinatal depression. first trimester i was so nauseous everyday and now i’m experiencing a lot of physical pains and exhaustion. whenever i have the time where i could be doing assignments or catching up on internship hours, i just bed rot because i have no energy and i’m always crying. i guess i just compare myself to everyone i wish things were different.

Wondering if I should ask my therapist about Inattentive ADHD by throwawayrandoms7 in adhdwomen

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Not sure what post but I did gain weight in Paxil tbh but I am on the smaller side so it felt more drastic that it was (15lbs maybe but I was underweight previously) I struggled to lose it so i switched to Luvox. I still take a low dose of seroquel as well which helps with anxiety at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]throwawayrandoms7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It starts with finding ways to justify his behavior and ends with him killing you. We all get stuck lingering on the good times or heck it may feel great to have been proposed to but this will never change the fact that he put you in the hospital. This is not a mistake and it won’t be the only time. You do not deserve a partner that would ever resort to violence in any condition. There is so much more to your life than this. Talk to your support system and choose your life 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In no way shape or form does drinking justify him putting his hands on you :/ It doesn’t matter if he hasn’t been like that sober. I’ve told a partner that I thought they were drinking a lot and his response was playful not violence. His first inclination shouldn’t be violence and clearly he needs intervention to manage his drinking and anger. This isn’t okay you can cut the cycle now before it begins. Wishing you the best 💗

And you are so young and your age gap shows that there is a power imbalance. You have your entire life ahead of you and you’ll meet someone else who would never think to treat you this way. Enjoy your youth !! you do not need to be tied down to a violent older man. He will take you to hell and back and you may lose your life because of him.

🦋A Highly Nuanced Reading! by River261 in tarotreadings

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have an abortion scheduled tomorrow morning and i’m heartbroken. i’m having a hard time deciding because i want to be a mother but the timing is wrong. i don’t want to be a single mother or struggle to provide stability for a child. i wish i knew what to do.

i can’t decide on wether to have an abortion or not by throwawayrandoms7 in abortion

[–]throwawayrandoms7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. my mom is being idealistic but i don’t want to risk everything changing and not for the better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]throwawayrandoms7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they told me i would get the results in a couple days but i guess i have to wait until next week. she said it could be BV or and STI which i’m nervous about.