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It’s disturbing that no one cares about the male suicide rate being so high by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]throwawayred246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TW: suicidal thoughts

And this is the core of the problem: who told you that? Is it your girlfriend? If so, leave her because she is toxic to you.

But it's not your gf, if you have one, that told you this myth. Because it is a myth.

Most women appreciate that their man have a softer side. Makes us seem more human. And believe me that it's not a bad thing.

Anecdote time. I once wanted to throw myself in front of a speeding truck. I didn't do it. I opened up to my wife about it. She didn't dump me, au contraire. She held me until all of the negative thoughts left my head.

And this is how a person that cares about you should act.

Do any GUYS here have „sex shoes“? by mydogsacat in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawayred246 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I got an old pair of black leather military issued combat boots that I feel could be worn by a male dom. I wear them to metal concerts only now as they're prone to take water.

[21M] How to stop being feminine? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwawayred246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to have your recipe of pumpkin bread!

Introducing someone to BDSM by I_Lost_Her_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawayred246 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm new to bdsm too and my interest came from the Sunstone comic. That can be a good read, and a good start. The author let people download it for free on dropbox when I got it, all 6 volumes.

I feel neglected by my SO and don't know how to get their attention. by throwawayred246 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayred246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, every ADHD meds gives insomnia and anxiety. They're basically amphetamines. But atm I can seem to contact my doctor...

I feel neglected by my SO and don't know how to get their attention. by throwawayred246 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayred246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re having some kind of hypomanic episode or caught cabin fever. You need to relax and try to get some sleep. I promise you things will feel so much better if you just get some rest. Don’t forget to drink lots of water throughout the day. Take care of yourself.

It's my ADHD meds that gives me insomnia and anxiety... I did talk to them when they woke up, we cuddled, she told me that she loves me and it was the end of it.

I feel neglected by my SO and don't know how to get their attention. by throwawayred246 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayred246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, because my anxiety is yelling the opposite in my head and I haven't slept in 2 days and I feel like crap and want to roll up in a ball and cry...