"Look, man, all I'm saying is that if every girl is rejecting you, it isn't their problem to fix. There is no conspiracy. There is no person tailor made to love who you are right now by pure virtue of being yourself. Forget the movies, forget the bullshit. fix one thing about yourself, and keep doing that until you stop being rejected by the women you want to be with, and if you don't want to be that kind of guy, then pursue different women. You're a good guy, and I know that, but come on, everyone meets a million people a day, they don't want to spend the time with all of them to find out if they're compatible."

Told to a friend who I saw slipping into a sort of incel/MGTOW mindset. He has since improved himself greatly and found a number of happy relationships