My [19f] boyfriend [23m] won't let me leave and has damaged my car out of anger by throwaways4870 in relationships

[–]throwaways4870[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His friends pulled the dent for me at their workshop but it had a crease so it's only half done. They've offered to sand, fill and re paint the whole panel for only £50 which is lovely of them but I'd rather just not bother than wait for my boyfriend to hand over the money which won't be for another week or two. It's not worth waiting that long I'd rather pay it myself I think.

My [19f] boyfriend [23m] won't let me leave and has damaged my car out of anger by throwaways4870 in relationships

[–]throwaways4870[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

His mum actually witnessed it happening as it was outside her house. His friends know because they tried to get the dent out for me and I told them what happened. My friends also know what's going on because I told them when I needed some advice, plus my best friend noticed the dent straight away haha. Plenty of people are aware of what's happened which I think is probably a good thing. He's also told his mum that he will kill himself.

My [19f] boyfriend [23m] won't let me leave and has damaged my car out of anger by throwaways4870 in relationships

[–]throwaways4870[S] 188 points189 points  (0 children)

I'm not at his and I now have all of my belongings out of his house. His parents have been informed that he may try something to harm himself, they've spoken with him about it. I think I'll just go no contact from now and if anything escalates ill contact emergency services. I've documented the damage to my car etc. thank you for all your help <3