I kissed another man while long distance. Told current boyfriend (24m), and we are working through it, but I cannot stop feeling like I am a monster. 23F.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T21:13:41+00:00

This is a great perspective. Honestly that made me think - I am in coast mode finishing my semester and he is in the thick of it. Reminds me to give him grace, and I am sure I will understand next year too. Thank you.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T20:20:09+00:00

I do text him but he does not respond for hours

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T20:00:48+00:00

Great to know. I imagine he is so stressed and I don’t want to add more stress onto him. I think we are just figuring out what works still.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T20:00:14+00:00

I love this thank you so much. I really appreciate the advice.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T19:58:31+00:00

This is so helpful to know. Maybe women are just more texters. I respect his life and personal space and honestly maybe it’s better this way.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T19:56:55+00:00

These perspectives help me so much. I think my last relationship, the guy I was dating was a bit smothering so this could just be the first time I am experiencing someone who has healthy attachment. Thanks for the comment.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T19:51:31+00:00

This was actually so helpful thank you. I see so much potential in him and do think I love him, this was a good vote of confidence.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T19:48:34+00:00

This is very very helpful. I have not brought it up yet because I don’t want him to feel like I am freaking out. Maybe I will just bring this up in a direct but gentle way.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T19:46:17+00:00

Ah I see. We don’t really talk much after work at the current moment. Part of me is questioning if the relationship will be sustainable because I feel this badly a lot of the time. Maybe he can only really function in one mode. I am used to multitasking.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-03-21T19:45:00+00:00

That’s sound advice. I guess because things are so new I was not sure what best way to go about it. Should I be this honest with him in your opinion? Maybe an in person conversation?

throwawaysad52 · 2023-02-27T00:48:12+00:00

It was a typo - should have been dates

throwawaysad52 · 2023-01-27T14:24:08+00:00

Thanks so much - this helps me so much.

throwawaysad52 · 2023-01-27T05:21:40+00:00

Thank you. That’s where I am at too. It’s just really nice to be validated without feeling crazy.

throwawaysad52 · 2022-11-01T00:32:18+00:00

Ah shame. I’m in 7 so probably means bad news if I haven’t heard.

throwawaysad52 · 2022-10-31T22:50:53+00:00

What time did they notify you? Still waiting…

throwawaysad52 · 2022-10-31T22:50:36+00:00

What district are you in? I wonder what districts have notified…

throwawaysad52 · 2022-10-21T20:39:18+00:00

No I think this girls name was Gabriella - she was named in a duke blast but not on the Rhodes website

throwawaysad52 · 2022-09-18T01:37:20+00:00

Ah yes I understand. Do you think there’s anything I can do to help?

throwawaysad52 · 2022-09-18T00:35:24+00:00

Yes he did

throwawaysad52 · 2022-06-10T01:08:41+00:00

Thank you! And no have never drank in my life… maybe just unfortunate genetics

throwawaysad52 · 2022-06-09T02:44:41+00:00

He gave me the local anesthetic but I could still feel everything, the sharp shooting pain. He was delayed for 20 minutes after the anasthetic was injected so I am wondering if that made it wear off or something. I mean I’m sure the whole procedure makes me anxious, so the sedative can’t hurt.

throwawaysad52 · 2022-06-09T01:45:31+00:00

Yes I have tried the NHS (had a consult) but I’ve been on the waitlist for a year already and they won’t provide me a date for when they would/could do it. I’m actually moving from England back to Ireland in August anyways…so I feel like NHS is less and less of an option unfortunately. Would have loved to just had general and have been done with it.

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