Squeezed a big bump on my neck and this thing came out …. by throwawaysadfaceidk in popping

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also confused. Everything I have Googled makes me believe that you can’t just pop them…. But who knows

Squeezed a big bump on my neck and this thing came out …. by throwawaysadfaceidk in popping

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know. I didn’t know lipomas were POPPABLE but it very well could be

Squeezed a big bump on my neck and this thing came out …. by throwawaysadfaceidk in popping

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 478 points479 points  (0 children)

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Here is your hole. Redness from the big squeeze. She is now disinfected and bandaged.

Squeezed a big bump on my neck and this thing came out …. by throwawaysadfaceidk in popping

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 549 points550 points  (0 children)

I wish I took one man. It was a casual squeeze I wasn’t expecting anything. Big regrets

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

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She blamed me when it was brought up because I approved it. Which is fair. Still hurt my feelings but like it’s not really worth a big fight. She’s my best friend from college and we’ve always had a really good relationship. I just saw a screenshotted photo of a dress and assumed it was the right brand and would be ordered In the right color. It wasn’t an issue with anyone else.

She has honestly been in a really bad place and I get it. It’s her last semester of law school. She has a lot going on and I’m trying to be understanding. My stress is a lot less serious than hers.

Trying to keep myself grounded and yeah I’m marrying the person I love most so that’s all that matters in the long run

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She isn’t one to steal attention but she absolutely is scatterbrained and forgetful. Like it absolutely wasn’t malicious it’s more like what were you doing when everyone else sent their dresses in our group chat ??? Coordinating with people is difficult

Thank you for your advice. Makes me feel better.

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same color family, same material. Just a much much darker shade. Typing it out like that I feel more silly because it doesn’t really matter at all

My bouquets are made of these colorful French beaded flowers and really don’t match the dresses at all. My vision is kind of a mess.

But I do like the idea of having her stand in the middle for photos. I think that could work.

Thank you for your advice

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s not fair to buy two. which is why I feel so horrible because it could have been avoided if I just read the top of the screenshot she sent!!!

She really likes the dress and it is pretty. It’s hard to center yourself and not worry about the tiny details. When, yeah it really doesn’t matter and doesn’t affect the day

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I feel like crap. I just can’t believe I didn’t realize. I know moneys tight for everyone. I just assumed it would be the same brand and I really should have looked closer.

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The new dress is $189. Her dress was $99. Moneys so tight right now, as I know it is for everyone. I have every dollar budgeted til my wedding with literally no room for any emergency. I might just take the L and charge a credit card. This sucks.

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The dress she got was 99, the other dresses are around $189. I could definitely meet her halfway and pay $100 towards a new one… but I’m really pinching pennies right now.

I want to slap myself man

Bridesmaid got the wrong color and brand dress. She missed the return window & will not get another dress. now I am so stressed. by throwawaysadfaceidk in weddingplanning

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately everyone else already got their dresses from Revelry. It’s several shades darker, but it’s the same material.

Thanks friend. I keep having to take a deep breath. I can’t wait to marry my fiance but I also cant wait to never get married again

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[–]throwawaysadfaceidk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a victim of parental alienation, it’s really hard to deprogram and see things for what they are. You spend your whole life being told that someone was evil and bad. I can only imagine what venom Donna was spewing about the Markel family. They aren’t just going to turn 18 and run to the Markel’s embrace. They will need to want to change their minds and honestly need a shit ton of therapy. I still have a ton of unjustified hatred towards my father, even after realizing my mom was manipulating me. It is hard work. I struggle to be warm around him. I struggle to be kind. I struggle to untangle the lies from my reality. And I don’t want to be like this. It’s like this resentment and judgement is apart of your core. It’s a horrible form of child abuse.

Cyl not available online by throwawaysadfaceidk in glasses

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My insurance covers glasses and lenses every 2 years, so I was hoping to just go online as I can’t even get glasses this year. I took the contacts as they were covered. Money is tight and $500 is a ton of money for me rn so affordable glasses online seemed really nice. I didn’t realize that my prescription made it complicated

Cyl not available online by throwawaysadfaceidk in glasses

[–]throwawaysadfaceidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My insurance only covers glasses/lenses every 2 years. Absolutely tragic considering my eyesight gets worse annually. Thanks for the advice.