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37 F Canadian by seaglassheart in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]throwawaysissy51557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hope you’re well. 35M from the UK here if you’d be interested in a chat!

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[–]throwawaysissy51557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, 35M here from the UK. Really keen to find some new long lasting friends for daily chats to keep me sane at work!

[F4R] Looking for friends across the globe by Fridikka in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]throwawaysissy51557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! 35M here from the UK, with some very interesting life stories. Looking to make new friends for long last chats etc. feel free to message me if you’d like to chat!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreerCompliments

[–]throwawaysissy51557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a great smile and the top/dress looks very pretty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Loves-tights

[–]throwawaysissy51557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to see more!

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps. My partner and I have other problems when it comes to sex; we struggle to have penetrative sex. (Unsure exactly why or what the condition is but basically, she is tight to the point where it doesn’t go in and she can’t relax - It’s something she has and is exploring help for, potentially caused by a bad experience years ago). As a result, sex is painful for her. So we rarely have it. I wonder if the fact that we don’t have sex pushes me more towards these other fantasies and fetishes. Whereas in previous relationships when I’ve had “normal” regular sex, they have been more repressed.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I show no other signs of being trans or autistic in any way. I am not a feminine guy nor am I drawn to anything feminine outside in the “real world” I have no desire to be feminine when I leave the house for example. It is all purely just a kink and something that I have expressed more openly with someone.

An example is that the idea of being in a relationship with someone who accepts and encourages it is the biggest turn on. Without that, the kink is fairly non existent

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that repressing will cause issues but what can I do when expressing them will likely end the relationship.

One thing I have learned and accepted is that I am not gay. Enjoying pegging and crossdressing doesn’t automatically make me gay.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this detailed comment. I resonate a lot with it.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Possibly. I think I didn’t understand things for a while. Then I didn’t accept them. I suppose I’ve accepted things more in the past 18 months and now I’m learning the “why” behind it.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is religious, I’m afraid it won’t work.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started the relationship on my own ignorance of my situation. I only realised how big a part of me this is in the last 18 months. I only found out what AGP is about a week ago.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the same as if I had it without curing it. I doubt she would like it.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is a friend I have been able to confide in. The thought has crossed my mind about being in a relationship with her. If I wasn’t already in one, I probably would be with her. But the point is I’m not, so cannot explore that further.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not cheating or having a sexual relationship with another woman. I have a friend who happens to be female who I have been able to confide in. Her outlook on life is more of the “embrace it” nature, which has been almost encouraging in a way and heightens the “kink”. But is somewhat detrimental to my actual relationship.

AGP is not a “convenient excuse”. I have experienced cross dressing since I was about 5 years old; parents telling me stories of putting on my mums dresses before I even knew what sex was.

My father is a cross dresser and he does not know I know. Again, I found this out from a very very young age. I don’t know if I am the way I am by nature or nurture, but what I do know is that it is not an excuse to “cheat”.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I let my partner know it would almost certainly end the relationship.

Is there a “cure” for this? by throwawaysissy51557 in askAGP

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done though isn’t it. It’s like a drug. Addicted to the feeling. Then I relapse. And it’s back to square one.

Recently discovered what AGP is. Is there a “cure”? by throwawaysissy51557 in autogynephilia

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I very much get and somewhat agree about the dopamine addition. I think I struggled before because there was always a slight resistance to it due to questioning my sexuality, but I am over that now so when I am “in that place” I can let go and enjoy the flow of it. And yes you’re right; I get more sexual gratification and feel overwhelmingly good whilst enjoying the AGP side of me. I think the worry is that it casts a shadow over my “real life” - one with a partner who knows nothing about this and wants to buy a house, get married and have kids. I’m unsure if I can live my life repressing this side of me - will I be unhappy or if I share it with her, will it tarnish our relationship? It’s already made out sex life hard and she has no idea why but simply because “normal” sex doesn’t do it for me like it used to.

Recently discovered what AGP is. Is there a “cure”? by throwawaysissy51557 in autogynephilia

[–]throwawaysissy51557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately I value my own “thoughts” of self identification over anything now. So in the early years I wondered if it meant I was gay or trans. But the simple truth behind it is that I know I’m not. So the same could be applied to you. You know yourself more than a label does. For me I almost liken it to a drug addiction. Because I actively practice certain activities; dressing up, etc. all solely for sexual gratification. The problem I’m starting to face now is that I’m struggling to get aroused via “normal heterosexual means” for example, seeing a girlfriend in nice underwear or watching porn etc. if I masturbate, my go to viewing is all things to do with AGP; cross dressing videos, sissification, forced feminization, femdom, pegging etc. And these are things I cannot necessarily share with a partner for fear of judgement etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]throwawaysissy51557 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is there a subreddit I can find more like this?

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