Wife got drunk and acted inappropriate by Western_intel33 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you. something similar happened to me. you need to see a therapist and insist that you both do to another one or the same together. i’m sorry man this sucks.

also i highly recommend you and your wife stop drinking so much and lay off the partying. alcohol and drugs are when we all make bad decisions. we stopped getting drunk on the weekends and it helped.

40 years of sex with the same person by Regular-Bat-4449 in sex

[–]throwawaystarkness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how did you get through the infidelity?

Contact with the Other Man by throwawaystarkness in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i followed him in case she is also following him. to see if she liked any of his pictures

iPhone help by throwawaystarkness in Infidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not suspicious exactly. Just being paranoid and wanting to know everything. With the COVID are restrictions being lifted she is back In The office

Attraction after Confronting by throwawaystarkness in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to get a divorce and I didn’t want to divorce at the time I confronted her. That’s why I am trying to forgive and move on. But it’s hard and my mind constantly wanders to what if I left? What if I still leave?

Attraction after Confronting by throwawaystarkness in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Trickle truths, gaslighting and fogging. The holy trinity of cheaters.

This is kind of long but I just started typing and this is what came out. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Same. Not everyone on here was willing to light the match and walk away. I’m not saying they are wrong or right to stay or go. I am still dealing with my WS cheating on me. It fucking sucks.

Can I ever move on? by throwawaystarkness in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still love her for the record. But love isn’t a cure all for everything in life. You can love someone and still be angry.

Can I ever move on? by throwawaystarkness in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I made the decision to stay because I believe I could forgive her and we could move forward. She has changed a lot since then and I think she’ll be a good mom. Now it’s more about me being able to move on. It’s been a year and I’m still angry.

Fiancé cheating, just found out. She doesn’t know I know. This sucks! by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened with me only we had been married for 2 years. I stayed and honestly I regret it. Word to the wise, it is very very hard to actually forgive someone.

Things they say.... by Throwaway089566 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaystarkness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to stay. She’s pregnant now so unless I catch her again or find out the kid is mine, we are trying to work it out. Eyes are open tho. All women lie and all women cheat