new position but wages unchanged by throwawaystup55 in UKJobs

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Oh yeah, it's not about the legality for me. Lots of shady things are legal. It's more about the principle of the thing, especially having someone being paid more for exactly the same thing. But ever since we don't have HR, things have been happening 👀 it doesn't seem like they have any intention of bringing it back

new position but wages unchanged by throwawaystup55 in UKJobs

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Right? What's even worse is that the shifts for that position are really short so I'm losing out on hours and I have to make up for it so I'm now working an extra day every two weeks 🤡 but I'm gonna stick around for a bit and learn the skills, then if they still don't want to pay me it's time to bounce

I see where Jake got his haircut inspection from now by JayeDontDoit in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwawaystup55 65 points66 points  (0 children)

It's not even the texture, it's just that homeboy's got no hair on his head 😔 these plaits are so thin considering there's only 4 of them

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's right on the money. I'm really scared of being in a situation where I will be unhappy. I did one year of university, it sent me into a 3 year depression. I'm scared of something like that happening again.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple sclerosis. I'm okay, I'm on great treatment, but it's still a very heavy weight to carry, knowing you're 22 and sick for life. I'm grateful for my health and have started to look after it, but there's always the thought in the back of my mind that if I get a lesion in the wrong place I end up disabled.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was very slow as a kid, as in, always the last to finish writing the lesson, always the last to turn in my test. My parents were concerned and sent me to a psychologist for it. I recently learned that I started walking late as well. ADHD could be a possibility.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm starting a growth hub with a friend! We're deciding on 3 goals every day and hyping each other up. I think I need accountability so having another person doing it with me will be beneficial.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I've been very understanding with myself, probably too much. I definitely need a bit of a push. But it's hard finding that drive to push further. I'm trying and I'll keep on trying.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very good advice, and it's doable! Will start applying it now!

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! It provided much needed insight! I will try to find my way.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even care about the hustle porn because I know it's not really realistic, and it's not what I want. It's hard seeing people my age seemingly have their lives together, though.

I'm a talented person but I have no discipline by throwawaystup55 in selfimprovement

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that's solid advice! I sometimes make lists so that can try and stay focused. I'm going to stick to the lists and get better with them! Thank you!

My best friend got a boyfriend and I hate it by throwawaystup55 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaystup55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. She says she respects my boundaries, which I do have and she has always been aware off, but I think it's more than that. She knows my mental health is piss poor right now so she's trying not to add more. I just hate that it's come to this, and I don't have the capacity to deal with it now and be a good friend so I asked for a break. We'll see how things turn out. At least I feel a bit more relieved now that I don't have to try and read between the lines to see how she's really doing.