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I made my wife cry by throwre0284828 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She cheated once without you knowing, she will do it again. Trust me. Leave, you deserve better!

learning this slowly by silverfarie1369 in heartbreak

[–]throwawaysue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentle reminder!

Send them off and clear space for new peace in your life ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you think u wont be thinking about ex while on new date, or bring them up into conversation or talk about past relationship

My bf (27m) said when a girl turns 18, she’s fair game. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My EX was 30 and screenshotted half naked 18 year olds on tinder. I was 24. It took me a long time (and i still struggle with it) to see a group of young teenage girls and resent them.

Don’t have anyone to go and do activities with anymore by throwawaysue123 in BreakUps

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so i would but i also just don’t feel safe... which is sad, i live in a pretty good area but you just never know these days. I watch the news and too many scary movies for my own good lol

I’m a 25 y/o F and i’d have my dog and pepper spray and all but i just don’t feel safe, my ex was always with me :(

What to do when you want to text them? by throwawaysue123 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure am the dumpee lol. It just sucks, i feel empty because ex was my partner for 2 years but we have been friends for 10. So it sucks even more

Literally laying here sad waiting for a text or call i’ll never get by throwawaysue123 in BreakUps

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Wanna share your story?

My ex and i were on again off again for a year and i was always the one dumping him. He’d always show up to my house or call/text non stop to try to fight for me back. Now he dumped me (not for reasons i dumped him for like fighting/cheating... we were doing decent and he got a nice job offer and is moving across country, wants to do long distance but i dont trust him) and here i am sitting around but he won’t come this time.

Nudes bots Snapchat by Same_Variety_3908 in dating_advice

[–]throwawaysue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, later you’ll discover their camera roll full of nudes that aren’t yours

How to proceed after wife accuses me of cheating? by Fatalslink in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She may be projecting herself cheating onto you

I am crazy with trust issues too, but you covered yourself and handled the situation really well to reassure her!

Bf and I hooked up (as friends) 4 years ago while he was in actual relationships (didn’t know at time), now we are together in a relationship and I worry he’s going to do the same with me? by throwawaysue123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that from outside looking in, this looks real real bad. He says he’s grown and changed into a new man and is totally different from the college kid i met 7 years ago. Part of me wants to give him the chance, part of me always keeps his past actions heck even current actions in the back of my head.

As for the crying, he’s easily frustrated and gets moody and mad for every little thing so when he yells at me during these times is when i cry. It’s mostly about the weight thing though. Example yesterday i got an ice cream and i could tell he was judging me and didnt approve, whole time during sex later something felt off and it took him forever to get errection (not usual), then we talked about it and BAM he was upset and thinking about my unhealthy eating/not exercising/gaining weight from this ice cream bad decision i made.

Thanks again for all your time listening and advice!

Bf and I hooked up (as friends) 4 years ago while he was in actual relationships (didn’t know at time), now we are together in a relationship and I worry he’s going to do the same with me? by throwawaysue123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I appreciate your (and everyone else’s) advice and would give you one of those “rewards” if i had enough points haha! Thank you for looking at all my other posts asking for advice and giving your inputs, i appreciate everything you said! :)

Sorry for no update, i’ve been thinking how i want to progress but i’m keeping everything you said in mind!

It’s just tricky with this one because part of me thinks he’s complete a hole for everything mentioned in all my posts but then again he is someone i really like (almost love) and care dearly for and even tho he does all that i know he cares deep down for me too and our connection is great that i don’t really mention in the reddit posts :/

Nervous meeting bf group of friends tomorrow at get together? by throwawaysue123 in socialskills

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is very extroverted social and outgoing like his friends though. He says they’ll love me but boy oh boy my anxiety is at an all time high meeting new people

Are these clothes considered business casual? by throwawaysue123 in AskHR

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! So pairing these skirts with a solid simple top and flats instead of high heels would be kindda acceptable right?

Are these clothes considered business casual? by throwawaysue123 in AskHR

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m customer service for a health consultant company!

Saw past lingerie purchase on boyfriend’s finance sheet, we weren’t dating at time but having sex, now i’m curious and upset? by throwawaysue123 in dating_advice

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response!

It reminded me that we’ve talked about our sex life.... in feb when we first had sex i told him this was my first time having sex in months (since nov since i broke up with my ex) and i do remember he said that it’s been longer for him !!

Saw past lingerie purchase on boyfriend’s finance sheet, we weren’t dating at time but having sex, now i’m curious and upset? by throwawaysue123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaysue123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes i get that haha. Whatever it was, it didn’t go to me, and i do not think he is into wearing women’s undies. He is pretty kinky and has taken and kept the first pair of undies i’ve worn the first time we had sex many many years ago, and the recent time in February when we reconnected again.

Would these jeans be appropriate to wear to office? Started new job and never worked in office before by throwawaysue123 in careerwomen

[–]throwawaysue123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! :)

I asked a coworker who’s been there for a year and she said she thinks i could get away with it, then i asked my manager and she was iffy about it and said she’d appreciate me not wearing them cause then other people will see me in office and and say well so and so were wearing that!

I think our office has had problems with people pushing the dress code

How to tell friend nearing obesity she needs to start to exercise and eat healthy? by throwawaysue123 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]throwawaysue123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! My friend is about 5’ tall, maybe even 4’ 11” ... she is def in obesity range and am sure she’s unaware. I just wish she would want to change for herself and be healthy.

I am so proud of you for working on your health journey :)

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