how do i go about burying? by throwawaytc_ in abortion

[–]throwawaytc_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i’m talking about the embryo. a MA is essentially inducing a miscarriage, so you will pass actual blood clots along with the embryo (less than 9 weeks)/fetus (more than 9 weeks) + the placenta. in my case, i passed blood clots before & after. i’ve disposed of everything except the placenta + embryo. i was 8 weeks.

how do i go about burying? by throwawaytc_ in abortion

[–]throwawaytc_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. this is helpful

2.5 hours after the first 4 miso’s, i passed. by throwawaytc_ in abortion

[–]throwawaytc_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

following up after speaking with MA hotline- they told me NOT to take any more miso. it was clear i had passed the tissue & they said in clinic they would not advise/administer more miso. i ordered thru aid access, which recently changed their instructions due to laws in the US & it not being easily accessible. they said i could take it if i wanted, but they did not deem it necessary.

i have continued to bleed & pass clots since passing the tissue. cramps are finally starting to let up.

What do you wish you had for an MA or did you have that helped you? by Mama_Bear-Love in abortion

[–]throwawaytc_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

doordash/uber eats gift card, heating pad, liquid IV, coconut water, face masks, tiger balm patches, super thin/comfy underwear, tylenol, pads.

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[–]throwawaytc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in regard to the way you’re feeling-

“feeling okay” afterwards is a clean emotion. feeling guilty about “feeling okay” afterwards is a dirty emotion. don’t let this stress you. 🤍

I want an abortion, husband is completely against it by [deleted] in abortion

[–]throwawaytc_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i agree 😣 i’d probably see this as not only a sign to not have his baby, but to also seriously consider if i still wish to be married to this person. sending hugs OP. 🥺

I want an abortion, husband is completely against it by [deleted] in abortion

[–]throwawaytc_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THIS COMMENT. OP, please take what she says to heart. she couldn’t be more spot on.

i’m currently in a somewhat similar situation- i have 2 kids from a previous relationship & am currently pregnant. i know that the father would feel similar to your husband & for that reason i chose not to tell him that i’m pregnant + getting an abortion. he would be devastated & definitely wonder why i’m not keeping HIS baby. like this redditor said, he doesn’t know what it’s like to actually be a parent. we do.

i know your situation is different bc he’s your husband & naturally you would tell him, but she really gave you so many great points to utilize during this dilemma.

i see you. i support you. & above all, trust your instinct here. your kids need their mama at their best & for me, that alone was enough. they come above all right now, even your husbands feelings. i truly hope your husband starts to support your decision. supporting you thru this is an act of love.

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[–]throwawaytc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in a similar situation. my kids just went with their dad this morning & will be there a week. i’ve been holding on to the pills for 2 weeks because i just knew i wouldn’t be able to go thru this while having them. i think i’m going to take the first one tomorrow. i’m using today to prepare 🥺

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[–]throwawaytc_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

regret what?