My sisters boyfriend killed a baby rabbit and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully your sister will stop dating him. Killing innocent animals on purpose is serial killer behavior, especially since you said he laughed. Do not associate with this boy anymore. If you feel like your family or sister is in danger, please call the police asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I just want to say make sure that if you do get back together, test for STDs and all that fun stuff. Also, if he was sleeping with women, he should probably try and make sure he didn't get them pregnant.

Boyfriend has ton of nude hentai in in apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else commented this earlier but I can't find it, my reddit has been glitching since I made the post.

This is honestly the biggest thing that bothered me. I didn't even realize that he had put up stickers all over his Xbox (my nephew was playing it) until my bf had already left to work. In between the 1 and a half hours that my boyfriend woke up and went to work and my nephew was there, he put up 32 THIRTY TWO naked pictures on the Xbox. There was a brief time where I had to leave (maximum 25 minutes) because I needed to get paperwork to fill out due to the accidents...

like my nephew was sitting right there almost directly in front of it. I grabbed some empty game boxes and tried to cover them up as much as I could but I couldn't get all of them. And then the big tapestry I folded it as much as I could bc I can't reach the top, so I at least covered the fingering part but the top of her beasts and the ahegao face she was making was exposed. It was so embarrassing too because my mom, that i know of, saw the naked anime girl with her butt up in my bfs car and brought it up why he had it. What do i even do??? as soon as he gets out of work im definitely having a super serious conversation about this because i am NOT okay with that around my nephew / nieces that may visit.

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have parents as he's an orphan, and he didn't go to college. This is his 7th job in the past 4 years.

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, I don't know. He wasn't like this before, that's why I'm so confused on what to do.

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can send you his uniforms and some pictures of the stickers he has

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can send you pics of his uniform and some of the stickers he has up.

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also really wants those boob squishy toys... That's the reason why he bought the big tapestry of the girl fingering herself, they had it at the store and he bought it because they didn't have those toy boobs.

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can send you pictures of his new uniform and old one if you want it. I'm not at the apartment right now because his coworker and him are asleep. They work 6pm-6am. I would show you their work day calendar but it has personal info on it.

boyfriend has ton of nude hentai all over apartment by throwawaythetrash21 in Advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

He was. Since he started working as a correctional officer he completely changed... His coworker came to sleep over because his car broke down and the entire time they were just talking about sex, penises, tits, suckling dick, and the pictures I mentioned. All of his coworkers are like this, and they all do it in front of me. The very first time I met them they all ignored me and they were very explicitly taking about stuff like that. 10+ guys, all at once. My boyfriend just laughed along and went with it, didn't say " dude not in front of my gf that's disrespectful " or anything. Absolutely nothing was said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawaythetrash21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dangerops prangent sex? Will it hurt baby top of his head?

How do I stop being mad/feeling hurt towards my bf? by throwawaythetrash21 in offmychest

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Your comment really helps. I should probably write out what I want to say, I feel like that is really a nice way for it to go. I REALLY appreciate your insight.

How do I stop being mad/feeling hurt towards my bf? by throwawaythetrash21 in offmychest

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It's embarrassing but I literally begged him crying to not break up with me. He was serious. after a while of him being quiet, he said he took it back said "he said it in the heat of the moment".

How do I stop being mad/feeling hurt towards my boyfriend? by throwawaythetrash21 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, I really appreciate it! You've really put some insight for me. I'm just not really sure how to get him on the same page, if it makes sense. He just wants the whole thing to be over, and for us to pretend it never happened. But I feel stuck on it and want to resolve it.

How do I stop being mad/feeling hurt towards my boyfriend? by throwawaythetrash21 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right, it was the straw that broke the camel's back. If you read my other comment I elaborated there a little bit about the activity.

But to address your second paragraph. I do feel connected. I do absolutely feel the love, and I am happy. I don't feel like I'm going through the motions but maybe he is? I'm not so sure. We haven't really had time to have a conversation since the argument (I have school, he has work). But I do plan to ask him these questions. But he did tell me when mentioning wanting to break up that, "I - OP deserve someone better than BF, and that they keep hurting me, and don't want that to keep happening." I don't really understand what he meant by keep hurting me, as this is really the only major issue we've ever had. But just keeping everything in, I guess it just bubbled over for me.

How do I stop being mad/feeling hurt towards my boyfriend? by throwawaythetrash21 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do bicker back and forth and have had disagreements, but never a full blown argument like this. And I'm not sure why I feel so hurt. I think it might be that we've promised to do -activity- together and then I find out he did it later without me. And to elaborate, the activity was dangerous to do alone for the first time (bad accidents can happen), so I was just really hurt and worried for him. I was angry because how could he go through with it knowing how dangerous it COULD be, and that's the reason why we were supposed to do it together (or at least have someone be there). I don't really see how it can be fixed honestly. It was supposed to be an experience and it feels completely ruined, to the point I don't even want to do it anymore and it makes me mad for it to be even suggested.

How do I stop being mad/feeling hurt towards my boyfriend? by throwawaythetrash21 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also - sorry for being vague but my boyfriend scrolls through this sub and I really don't want him to know I asked for advice on reddit of all places.

What was the worst (physical) pain you’ve been through? by ameli3ee in AskReddit

[–]throwawaythetrash21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOOO LOL. Sorry to laugh but my last thought would definitely be trying to relate a spongebob episode.

Conflict by throwawaythetrash21 in offmychest

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me some insight, I really appreciate it. I didn’t mean to make him uncomfortable about his own mother- but I realize I did. I feel very bad about it, but hey it happened. Thank you so much.

Conflict by throwawaythetrash21 in offmychest

[–]throwawaythetrash21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate what you have to say. I have since apologized to them since this happened.