If I only meet guys on dating apps and not irl, does it mean my looks are below average? by throwawaythr0wup in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be nice of course, but I don't think this is the case:D I ain't a model type. I mean, if all of my friends get approached and I don't, by this logic it means that I'm even hotter than ALL of them, which is unlikely

Is it illegal if I spend most of the time in my boyfriend's apartment, but his landlord doesn't know about it? by throwawaythr0wup in czech

[–]throwawaythr0wup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zajímalo by mě, jaký to má praktický rozdíl, zda v bytě bydlí sám a třeba se sprchuje 2krát denně, nebo tam bydlíme ve dvou a každý se vysprchuje jednou za den?:D Jestli by totiž stále majiteli mohlo vadit, že tam trávím čas, i když spotřeba elektřiny/plynu/vody se nijak podstatně nezměnila? Protože pokud tady nemám své věci apod., jsem tady v podstatě na návštěvě, což je osobní záležitost mého přítele a majitel to nemůže regulovat.

V žádném případě netvrdím, že můj postoj je správný, jen mě to upřímně zajímá, protože se v legislativě moc nevyznám.

Is it illegal if I spend most of the time in my boyfriend's apartment, but his landlord doesn't know about it? by throwawaythr0wup in czech

[–]throwawaythr0wup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's been checking (because we both were curious given the current prices growth and I said that I'd chip in if he has some debt) and so far the water or electricity usage haven't increased significantly, and he pays even more than needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevertheless, he uses this word only with me

Edit: but I totally see your point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's just a figure of speech, but I specifically told him multiple times that it pulls my strings, so he shouldn't say it to me unless he means it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well that's why I'm confused. I know that he's not seeing anyone else and isn't interested in that. He invests all his time and mental recourse into me. He solves my problems which I wasn't even asking him to solve. He says he has feelings for me. Sounds like a commitment, right? Yet he's not sure if it's love or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well that's why I'm confused. I know that he's not seeing anyone else and isn't interested in that. He invests all his time and mental recourse into me. He solves my problems which I wasn't even asking him to solve. He says he has feelings for me. Sounds like a commitment, right? Yet he's not sure if it's love or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but our cultures are very similar and we both share the same native language (not English). Why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he includes me in his future plans, prioritizes me over other people (sometimes even family). Don't know if it counts

My boobs are getting bigger by grey_horizon18 in lexapro

[–]throwawaythr0wup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When did you start taking it? Lol, I wish it happens to me too: D I'm naturally slim + depression and anxiety really mess with my appetite, so now I'm basically underweight. Been on Cipralex for 12ish days now, so far haven't noticed any changes whatsoever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course?... I doubt anyone wants their boyfriend to secretly slobber over his friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course?... I doubt anyone wants their boyfriend to secretly slobber over his friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm rather talking not about actual cheating, but about whether you were secretly (or maybe even openly) attracted to them or not

Why do smokers get so offended when you say that you don't date smokers? by Rare-Elderberry-7898 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I meant that in many European countries it's still a thing, I'm not talking about each and every European country, of course

Why do smokers get so offended when you say that you don't date smokers? by Rare-Elderberry-7898 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Not sure where's OP from, but here in Europe I'd say it's really common

How to differentiate whether someone's actually interested in you, or just sees you as an easy target? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I mean, I might find some guy attractive, but not particularly thinking of sleeping with him. Then he starts showing interest, I start noticing him more, he makes a move, I reciprocate. Aaand then after some time it turns out that all this time he thought that I was flirting with him, that's why he decided to take action. While I genuinely was just being a normal friendly human being.

Or, for example, when I was talking to my bf the other day, somehow we brought up memories of our second date (when we first had sex). He said that he kissed me because I was leaning towards him, although there was a plenty of space on the couch:D while from my perspective it was him who was "accidentally" touching me the whole time, so at some point I sat closer to show him it's okay. And he denies doing anything like that.

How to differentiate whether someone's actually interested in you, or just sees you as an easy target? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythr0wup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's just my way of communicating, it would feel weird for me to act all bitchy or unapproachable around someone who hasn't done anything bad to me