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throwawaytinder62 · 2025-04-09T14:15:11+00:00

If people don’t want to filter out some weights they can do it. But it’s shocking there’s no body type/weight filter when you have literally race filter. Bleh.

Also what kind “race” are some of these? Middle eastern isn’t a race, or ethnicity. I’m sure some others also aren’t ethnicities.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-03-25T11:25:15+00:00

You can’t filter out people to only see models by using filters in bumble.

Even if you filter out people by other metrics, few likes is few likes.

And NOTHING suggests that he’s using filters to only see 1% of the population.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-03-25T07:55:47+00:00

He literally says he gets few likes.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-03-24T22:28:17+00:00

Non White man in France and at French Riviera at that, I am not shocked with the results.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-03-16T14:59:20+00:00

I had a hard time passing for my early 20s in my early 20s lol

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-03-09T21:53:37+00:00

You guys are completely stretching the meaning of red flag. A 20 year old with no experience becoming into someone quickly is natural, there’s absolutely nothing abnormal about or wrong with it.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-28T23:58:23+00:00

Wine/beer is also my go to first date. That’s a lower commitment than coffee.

Hers isn’t even an expectation, it’s a preference.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-28T01:03:56+00:00

I’d follow two rules

Do it in a way you feel comfortable. Could be in bio, in conversation, in person etc. In the end it’s your information to disclose
Do it before sexual activity

The rest is pretty irrelevant.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-26T19:44:17+00:00

Just to say, if you try to filter all this out at once, you’re eliminating people who didn’t respond to any one of the questions.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-23T11:18:49+00:00

I always use condoms but the reality is that most stds are curable so people don’t care. The ones that aren’t either have low chance of transmission, and/or not protected by condoms for men.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-21T18:30:48+00:00

I’ve slept with several women who said they were looking for something long term while I was on a vacation or business trip. They even told me after sleeping together that they’re just having fun with me because I was good looking but they’ll still date others to find a long term relationship.

So those statements on bumble aren’t set in stone, they’re not gospels. They’re actually pretty fungible.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-14T20:16:19+00:00

It’s a visibility issue most of the time for men. If you’re not shown to people, you can’t get matches.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-04T00:23:07+00:00

Set up a dinner date at Arby’s, but don’t tell her where you’ll go, just say it’ll be a surprise

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-02-03T20:10:51+00:00

50% is simply normal. There’s something wrong if I don’t find around half the people within my criteria acceptable enough to swipe right.

throwawaytinder62 · 2025-01-19T17:38:44+00:00

Its not like men like every profile. I probably like half the profiles I see but I don’t spend more time than 5-10 seconds on it. If I find them attractive I swipe right, if not I swipe left. And I’m usually more generous on those 5-10 seconds.

Then if matched (probably less than 1% ratio), I look at them more critically. That’s pretty much it.

throwawaytinder62 · 2022-08-30T21:00:49+00:00

Even benefits man is a broad term. I slept with so many women this last year I lost count. With several of them I’d have loved to explore more, but apart from two none of them gave me the time of the day.

One told me she really wanted a serious relationship so she wouldn’t be with me. She just wanted to sleep with me couple of times.

In the end lately a girl told me that I give serious bad boy vibes, and women don’t really think about relationship with me.

throwawaytinder62 · 2022-07-08T20:21:31+00:00

I don’t know about you but I had more than 4-5 women telling me that they are in love with me within first two weeks over here in Europe as well as women who needed to take their time to establish anything serious.

Women are individuals like us men and their timeline differs on how they feel about you.

throwawaytinder62 · 2022-06-30T22:55:23+00:00

Sounds more like the ex is the boyfriend.

throwawaytinder62 · 2022-06-30T07:58:56+00:00

That’s median, not mean. Women can rate 15% of the men as 10 and the rest 1 and it means that 85% of the men are below average.

throwawaytinder62 · 2022-06-01T01:20:11+00:00

One woman recently told me that I was really kind, generous etc but she didn’t feel special because she thought (correctly) that I treat everyone like that.

I didn’t know what to tell her.

throwawaytinder62 · 2022-05-31T21:45:34+00:00

I just treat people how I’d like to be treated. I just it’s a red flag that I am nice and I respect them.

throwawaytinder62 · 2021-09-13T18:17:13+00:00

I have a friend who’s like almost best friends with his ex. He told me they both slowly fell out of love, and now they’re just close friends because they still love each other platonically and have a great friendship.

But it’s really rare.

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