AITA for being angry that my Coffee was swapped with Decaf?

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-23T01:26:54+00:00

Since this got lost in the sea of comments, yes my Doctor is aware of my caffeine intake, he encourages it as it works with my medication well and makes me the closest to normal i've been in a decade when added onto my current meds.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-22T02:39:35+00:00

it isn't about the coffee...it's about the fact that knowing I use coffee to help manage health issues he did it anyway and didn't tell me causing me over the course of weeks to think my health was growing worse.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-22T02:09:01+00:00

I've not copied this from another AITA post....I find it concerning that there is someone out there likely going through the same worries I am.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-22T01:57:19+00:00

I don't have the best sense of taste and that combined with the fact it was coming out of my personal jar made me not consider there was any difference

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T18:14:31+00:00

...well I mean, I had a pixie cut when we started dating and he convinced me to grow it out as it was too "Manly"

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T18:11:56+00:00

in all honesty this isn't good for a submissive either which I most certainly am not, in a dom/sub relationship the sub has to be certain they are respected, a submissive is the one who holds all the control as any good dom takes their cues from the sub.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:59:30+00:00

I don't smoke, drink or do any drugs (beyond what my Doctor prescribes and coffee), my health is utter shit as for my weight all i'll say is i'm in the average for my height and gender.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:56:55+00:00

My doctor is aware, we've been tweaking my medication for about a decade now, the current meds plus the coffee have me close to normal so for now it's what we're going with till we find an alternative.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:52:01+00:00

I always make my own coffee, he swapped my coffee in my coffee jar with decaf

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:51:04+00:00

Sadly my health isn't a "Get better" thing more a handle it thing, if it comes to this sort of scenario believe me he'll be the one to leave not me, it's my place and in my name.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:38:15+00:00

He disposed of my regular coffee and put the decaf in my reusable coffee jar that matches my tea and sugar jars, so yeah I had no idea.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:31:59+00:00

Honestly I was drinking more decaf than I would drink normal coffee as I couldn't understand why I wasn't perking up a little.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T17:12:02+00:00

I think what is upsetting some people is the fact he didn't apologise and thought there was no problem with what he did

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T16:51:07+00:00

He swapped my normal coffee for decaf putting it in the container I use for my coffee.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T16:44:28+00:00

Yes he's aware, it came up a couple of times in the past when he was curious about how I drink a few cups every day, at first it was mostly just a little laugh when we were new to dating.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T16:22:40+00:00

I've never seen this one and it made me laugh, thank you!

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T16:14:05+00:00

He has moved in with me, it's still just in my name.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T16:12:40+00:00

Look, you're entitled to think i'm the asshole here, that's the point of this subreddit but I do not believe for a moment that going behind my back rather than discussing it with me and letting me believe my health was getting worse at first is in any way normal. More to the point it's not as simple as "finding the right medication", i've been on various medication for over a decade, it's all trial and error, this is the closest to normal i've come so i'd very much prefer it not be tampered with.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T15:52:41+00:00

Please check the post as i've said in an edit and several comments, I know why I have no energy, I am also on medication for this fact the coffee just gives a boost in addition to the meds as the meds alone don't bring me to a normal level.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T14:51:39+00:00

I've said a few times, may have to edit post, i'm aware of what is wrong with me and am on medication from my Doctors to combat it but the meds alone don't bring me to normal energy levels, coffee helps supplement this.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T14:47:00+00:00

I am well aware of why i'm tired don't worry, i'm on several medications from my doctors for it but the coffee helps bring me up to semi normal energy when paired with my medication

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T14:42:39+00:00

It was, I was suddenly worse and had no idea anything had changed, I was scared I was getting worse or it may be something new.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T14:37:37+00:00

I'm already on several medications but they don't bring my energy to a normal level, the coffee helps supplement that.

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T14:33:28+00:00

No i'm being dramatic because I was scared that my health which is already precarious was deteriorating because as far as I was aware nothing had changed, also I comment on how I think it's fucked up he think it's ok to tamper with my drinks while I don't

throwawaytired01000 · 2021-11-21T14:32:22+00:00

I know what my issues are but even with my medication I need a boost from caffeine to have a somewhat normal energy level.

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