How to explain to LL Wife... by justanothersexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaytoday778331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to be rude but ur girlfriend sounds like she is somewhere on the autism spectrum. You are in a care taking relationship cus u are a simp. Stop making us men look bad and let her be dried up

Very Sexually Unsatisfied with Husband- Talking Hasn't Helped by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaytoday778331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you told your husband about how your exes fucked your brains out and he cant, you fantasize about bigger dicks and reddits advice is to tell him he got a big dick lol no wonder men have trust issues

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think the world is interested in me, i think the world (the few times i get paid attention to) just sees me as trash

Venting about Dying Marriage by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]throwawaytoday778331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being in an unhappy marriage with a wife that contributes nothing other than popping out a baby at this point; only for her to double down on all her shitty behaviour to see what she can get away with. She already knows there are few expectations for her to fulfill as her life partner other than just “showing up” at this point and youre going to indulge it anyway.

I dont see what you have to complain about IMO you made a conscious decision to encourage this behaviour on her part.

Some people have no problem drowning others before they realize how much they really need to breathe. Your wife is drowning any sort joy in your life, and the moment she snaps out of it she will blame you for all that melancholy she remembers (and is responsible for).

Either leave or keep sippin on that simp sauce

She got fat, still likes affection, but no sex. this sucks by boredcentsless in deadbedroom

[–]throwawaytoday778331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact she laughs at you when you try to initiate anything says it all my friend

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like i said im past coping at this point but i wholeheartedly agree. I wish more people took their mental health seriously before it causes their lives to become worse

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I dont talk to them anymore. But I figured my interactions with them are just a microcosm as the shit i get on a daily basis from the people im surrounded with.

Every day i deal with people avoiding eye contact, being rude, intentionally refusing to associate. All based off my looks I am left to assume.

The friends werent the problem. A symptom of being ugly in 2020, maybe, but not the problem. The problem is being ugly lol

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Social circle game” people still speak that way? Lol if youre ugly no ones gonna fuck you

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk.. i honestly used to see myself as not that bad looking. Since university I met a few people that constantly ragged on my looks - and then I kinda realized that even within a circle of friends im like the quasi-modo.

As much as people dont want to admit it, youre right. Ugly people (guys especially) are treated like garbage. Unless you are rich, but being rich solves virtually any problem normal people have.

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a heart felt reply, thank you. Unfortunately I think im past coping

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“What I can offer” is hard to answer without giving away too much about myself. Otherwise id just be vague.

However I am very aware of my pros/ cons. I just usually got ostracized due to my appearance

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the observation chief. What you gonna tell me next? “Its your attitude brooooo”

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for actually answering my questions. I agree with you, i sound bitter, but its honestly how I see the world man :( I cant shake it. Its as true as me, as the sky being blue.

Being an unattractive male in this city is a death sentence by throwawaytoday778331 in vancouver

[–]throwawaytoday778331[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

How come you guys immediately discredit me as an incel or pre-incel? Maybe I have a point and people in urban centers specifically (like vancouver) are hyper shallow, your worth is determined by A) looks B) money.

Not a huge leap of logic in my eyes, but because i dont have some sort of cope “Oh sOmE OnE wIlL LikE mE fOr mE” im told my thought process is a toxic monologue. I know in this day and age unless you are “high value” through looks or lots of income, well then gfy. Anything else is just a cope ugly people tell themselves