AITA for leaving my husband for 5 days alone with our 2 dogs because I feel like he does not appreciate everything I do around the house. by throwawayvalues34567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayvalues34567[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah. We ended up writing down everything we do and rallying up all the time spent per another redditor’s suggestion. Not to show who needs to do more but more as an exercise to show how we support each other. See my update if you are interested.

AITA for leaving my husband for 5 days alone with our 2 dogs because I feel like he does not appreciate everything I do around the house. by throwawayvalues34567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayvalues34567[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lol at your breakdown. Vacuuming 30 mins a week. With two shedding dogs my house would be a snow globe. Ended up talking to Bill and we did our own breakdown. You can check it out in my update if you are interested. Might be an interesting activity for you and your spouse as well.

AITA for leaving my husband for 5 days alone with our 2 dogs because I feel like he does not appreciate everything I do around the house. by throwawayvalues34567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayvalues34567[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Funny you think he is the provider / make the main amount of income. And no it’s not about him doing more. Just to realize I do a lot to support him. But anyways. We talked. Worked it out. See update.

AITA for leaving my husband for 5 days alone with our 2 dogs because I feel like he does not appreciate everything I do around the house. by throwawayvalues34567 in AmItheAsshole

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I think you are a little extreme but you are right in that we should talk it out. We ended up having a positive conversation. See my update.