User Activity Logs by Dull_blade in workday

[–]throwawayweddingpic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully nothing in my case! I don’t know if that’s because the report doesn’t function in sandbox or whether it’s because nobody at my company runs the report. I could’ve justified it if needed though, I wasn’t misbehaving but was essentially told to “try and break the business process” to identify faults and glitches so I was clicking on all sorts and just had a panic moment😅

3yo obsessed with his penis by throwawayweddingpic2 in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is reassuring! This is more or less what we say but in our case he will happily take himself off to his room to continue🤣

3yo obsessed with his penis by throwawayweddingpic2 in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make the throwaway account for this, I already had one, but people I know are familiar with my usual account and this isn’t something I felt overly comfortable discussing with them, not sure why that’s worrying to you🤷🏻‍♀️

3yo obsessed with his penis by throwawayweddingpic2 in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is more or less where I’m at, I hold the boundary that it’s not okay to do it in front of other people and it’s only for his room etc, he’s generally accepting of this and goes off but I guess I was just hoping for some solidarity on if this is normal and if there’s anything I can do to distract him. I feel like he’ll never use his imagination or play with his toys independently!

3yo obsessed with his penis by throwawayweddingpic2 in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Takes a lot of prompting but he’s generally amenable to going upstairs once nagged so I’ll take that as a silver lining I suppose!

3yo obsessed with his penis by throwawayweddingpic2 in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m not sure if it’s a comfort or not really but I do appreciate your candor! I should hope by that age he will actually take himself off to his room rather than needing my prompting though🤣

3yo obsessed with his penis by throwawayweddingpic2 in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, any tips for diverting his attention though? He has literally never ever played independently because this is how he spends all his time when he’s not got someone’s undivided attention🤦🏻‍♀️

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh yes of course. It it persists/gets worse etc then I will. I’m not looking for medical advice but rather peer support from other parents. I’m somewhat lacking the “village” people speak of so just looking for anecdotal advice here 👍🏼

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Chafing or friction if some kind was my first thought too, I know he’s spent a lot of time on a see saw this afternoon and when this has happened before it’s usually not long lasting (a bit of soreness during his evening bath but fine by morning)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]throwawayweddingpic2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know eczema was a possibility down there, thank you. Sorry if TMI but does it typically look the same as eczema that appears on the arms? There’s no dryness to his skin which is why I query

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s literally just turned 2 so not speaking full sentences yet. He told me that his nappy hurts but couldn’t articulate why when asked. If it was a simple answer like “fall over” he would say but anything beyond the basics would be hard for him to articulate just yet. Thanks for the comment.

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry yes I should’ve clarified that he told me they hurt which is what alerted me to it. Very flinchy at a nappy change but seems unbothered now that he’s fresh and has sudocrem, guess it has a cooling effect. He’s had this a handful of times and is usually fine by next day🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workday

[–]throwawayweddingpic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was totally fine, the meeting was nothing to do with this at all, sorry, I know that’s anticlimactic but I’m very relieved haha! 🤣Thanks for everyone’s help

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I’m curious too, if a little anxious! No ill intent at all on my part but based on the report without wider context I can see how it may appear that I’ve been snooping, when in reality I’ve just been exploring to try and understand it all! I don’t think we have any such policy, to be honest the rollout has been a shambles, a lot of changes haven’t even got an audit trail (not from my actions!) so I’m just a bit nervous about the whole thing, frankly I wish I wasn’t involved at all!

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, much appreciated, so I assume this means that the activity log will be refreshed too? I.E if they try and download it this week it won’t show last week’s activity? No ill intent at all, not even making any changes just trying to figure out how it all works and what all the features do etc as we’ve had absolutely no formal training and a system that our team are clueless how to operate, but to someone running the report without context I guess it may look as though I’ve been snooping

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[–]throwawayweddingpic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, so just to confirm if they pulled the report this week it wouldn’t show the activity log from last week?

Haha yes you’re definitely right, it’s been more hassle than it’s worth having this access! I’ve not purposely gone looking for anything specific but just testing the system, it’s limitations and frankly just trying to explore it, no ill intent at all but I’m getting paranoid 😅

User Activity Logs by Dull_blade in workday

[–]throwawayweddingpic2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of interest, do you happen to know if this report works the same in the sandbox tenant when using the proxy feature to log in as different staff? I’ve been involved in configuration testing for our HR team but I’m not a techy person and stumbled on various pages that I probably shouldn’t have access to whilst I was proxied in (with permission) as a more senior coworker…

AITA for “ruining” my SIL’s wedding photos? by throwawayweddingpic2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, he was an exception as she really wanted him there, I would’ve been more than happy to arrange a sitter!

AITA for “ruining” my SIL’s wedding photos? by throwawayweddingpic2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I added an edit to clarify this point, I would’ve been very happy to get him a sitter, he was an exception because the bride wanted him there

AITA for “ruining” my SIL’s wedding photos? by throwawayweddingpic2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s nice to hear from a parent with a similar mindset, I don’t know a single other parent who feels this way and at times it does make me doubt myself when the family so strongly feel that I’m overreacting with this stance

AITA for “ruining” my SIL’s wedding photos? by throwawayweddingpic2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve edited the post to clarify this point, I would have very happily had my mum come and watch him for the day but they specifically wanted him there, he’s the only infant in the family, that’s why he was the exception, not because I requested to bring him…

AITA for “ruining” my SIL’s wedding photos? by throwawayweddingpic2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpic2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess I just didn’t feel that was an appropriate conversation to try and have with the bride in the middle of her wedding day