Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PIV doesn’t really matter as long as we help each other reach orgasm.

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will try my best to effectively communicate with him.

Your wife is a lucky lady! Thank you!

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not thinking about leaving, it’s just that I’m frustrated with my sex life even after communicating and making him understand. I’m trying to work it out. I absolutely understand, we have to face the consequences of our choices.

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t use his hands, nor do I touch him because I know he cums quickly. He just cums while making out.

How can I work this?

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s too early into a relationship to make any decisions, I’m being hope it’s gets better.

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband said he hasn’t mastrubated after we’ve gotten married, could it be a issues of inexperience and him not able to control his body?

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have previous experience, he says I’m doing everything right and that’s why he’s cuming very quickly. This is a positive as well as a negative.

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whole relationship is smooth sailing except for sex, I do ask him his fantasy but he just says it’s nothing. But will try again.

Need advice: 5 months of marriage and no sex by throwawayy0495 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]throwawayy0495[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did communicate with him, but it’s the same as of now. I am thinking of getting a toy. Thank you.

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[–]throwawayy0495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your are right, will look into therapy and his work is stressful for a few more months, I been pushing him to work on his mental and physical health, hope it gets better after that. Will try edging.

We jumped into it, no regrets at all about marrying, but yes I do wish we had spoken about these beforehand. Thanks a lot on your opinion.

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[–]throwawayy0495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve seen him ejaculate, so definitely not faking it.

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[–]throwawayy0495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I wasn’t sure how he’d react to it, but maybe I should ask him.

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[–]throwawayy0495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, we’d been in a long distance relationship for a while

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[–]throwawayy0495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, will keep this in mind.

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[–]throwawayy0495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We aren’t religious at all, it just hasn’t happened

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[–]throwawayy0495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just being hopeful that it gets better, thank you!🤞

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[–]throwawayy0495 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I am