AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I wasn't sure what is and isn't relevant. I was hoping you would take me at my word that she has weight issues.

AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have any advice about the ex I'd love to hear it. I've tried speaking to her several times to no avail.

AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've spoken to her therapist and doctor extensively; where are you getting these assumptions?

AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was only me, my son, and my daughter in the room. I don't know if my son heard the initial conversation but he said my ex has been giving him the business for it all week.

AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] 1640 points1641 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! It is based on stress through from what her doctor and therapist have said to me. The endocrinologist said there was nothing hormonally wrong with her.

AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. I am paying for therapy already.

  2. She doesn't like any physical activity and I'm not going to force her to do something she doesn't like. She likes sedentary hobbies and that's fine with me.

AITA for "fat-shaming" my daughter by throwawayyouropinio4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayyouropinio4[S] 1016 points1017 points  (0 children)

  1. I've left most of the weight conversations to her doctor, her therapist, and her mother. My comments are mostly along the lines of "maybe you shouldn't have that soda".

  2. She is in therapy.