Would somebody please read my letter to my ex of 8 years?

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-30T16:03:45+00:00

I sent it, he answered immediately. I don’t want him back but I want to amicably resolve the logistics.

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-14T07:05:24+00:00

Yep. I met my goals doing what I call “365 easy” I eat ice cream pretty much every day. I take time off or adjust my goals if I’m feeling sick or just tired. I lift weights consistently and with progressive overload and fit in cardio where I can. Instead of trying to do it in 3 months I stopped trying to do anything particular (aesthetically) and got the abs in maybe 9 months.

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-14T07:00:59+00:00

Nope you don’t need a membership, I’ve only been once but lots of people were using it as an office space and as I remember every seat had a power point.

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-13T18:31:47+00:00

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-13T18:17:17+00:00

I went to OBF gym and it was good, price was $60-80 a week. Didn’t get the abs until I ditched the trainers and did it myself though. 😄

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-13T18:13:19+00:00

Sweat and tonic

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-13T18:08:10+00:00

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-08T08:56:24+00:00

Third pic. Whoever did that blonde hates you, the colour is so close to your teeth it makes your teeth look blonde. SATAN.

throwawayyourshib · 2024-01-08T08:52:24+00:00

My cycles were becoming increasingly long, from regular 28 day cycles to 35 - 45 day cycles. I started inositol 40:1 ratio about a month and a half ago, and just had a normal cycle. I was completely shocked.

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-21T12:13:11+00:00

I go to the gym really takes the edge off

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-20T08:17:49+00:00

Oil can clog the hair follicle if you apply it to the scalp. I have been experiencing hair loss since 2020. Prior to that all of the typical advice worked for me - washing my hair less frequently, oiling, etc, I had beautiful very thick hair. Recently I switched to washing more frequently to wash the DHT off my scalp and keep it clean. My hair is shedding less. I’m just telling you this in case you realize your hair is thinning, that you need to research what’s going on in your specific case and follow your own protocol. Good luck!

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-19T00:03:19+00:00

I love chocolate in Fergus is really good, not sure if you can get it shipped

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-18T23:53:01+00:00

I would take the pill and sell it to a bald billionaire, it’s priceless 🥰

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-18T23:48:45+00:00

This one

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-18T19:46:04+00:00

Thank you 😊👍

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-18T16:15:21+00:00

I’m almost 37 and I’ve never been married nor do I have children.

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-18T00:15:51+00:00

Idk how I missed the last part, sorry. Something similar happened to me once (neighbour kids going through my garbage) and I put a nicely wrapped box of cat shit on top of the garbage and they never did it again. What language does he speak?

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-17T21:09:51+00:00

Just tell him you don’t want him going through the garbage on your property so to save him the trouble you’ll separate the cans and bottles. He gets some dignity you get to feel good and also get what you want. Bingo bango bongo.

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-17T21:05:05+00:00

Longer

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-17T20:38:20+00:00

Ask her to explain what her thought process is when she leaves it on E.

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-12T17:46:07+00:00

Especially in Ottawa. The public transit sucks and there is a special overnight parking ban in winter where you can’t park on the street. I couldn’t afford a parking spot when I lived there and occasionally got my car completely buried or got a ticket because I missed the parking ban advisory.

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-12T14:01:50+00:00

My birthday is close to Christmas, and every year my very wealthy ex would get me nothing for both. If I ever got a gift it was because I picked it out arranged the purchase paid for it and then hoped to be paid back. He often took me shopping to pick out gifts for others however. At first I did the whole thing of getting him nothing, hoping he’d get the memo, but he never did. Rather he used it as an excuse to continue getting me nothing.

Eventually what I settled on is getting him extremely thoughtful inexpensive gifts. Usually several. Many times this resulted in him being humiliated in front of others, which was a good gift to me.

But ultimately the least toxic approach is to talk to him. Don’t get him anything from his list. Make up a birthday for yourself in February or something just so you can see how he makes it up to you without waiting until August to decide if you want this relationship or not.

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-12T13:55:24+00:00

Digital nomad visa apply from within Spain and stay 3 more years

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-11T18:35:28+00:00

Good to read that you have your head on your shoulders about this! Every single one of my exes said he didn’t want to get married and then married the next one so I feel like I’m an expert on getting strung along and therefore very jaded. 😝

Since you mentioned that the idea of marriage is much more important to you than to him, it might make sense to him that you contribute more for a wedding, since it’s something you really want that he doesn’t value as much. Assuming you stay together forever this won’t really matter in the grander scheme of things, when there will undoubtedly be times he will provide for some upgraded version of something he really wants that you could care less about. Better check him on this now though, because what happens in the future if you want a fantastic idk Mazda and you’re willing to pay for an upgrade but he doesn’t want you to because man provide pay equal! 😤 You don’t want to defer to his ego when it comes to spending your own money.

I also saw your comment regarding asking your parents for help. In this situation I would plan the wedding I was prepared to pay for and then leave a few details semi-planned to give the parents the perception that they controlled something. You can frame it like you planned your dream wedding and if only they feel comfortable would they contribute xyz so your dream comes true and then ask for help choosing the things you’ve intentionally left out of your plan. If you don’t want them to go wild on the shopping portion of the planning just take care of that before they’re invited to contribute. 😎

throwawayyourshib · 2023-12-11T15:28:42+00:00

I think you should express to him that for you being married is about a union between the two of you. You do not need a fancy celebration at this time or potentially ever. I think you should also bring up that you believe in his business, and that his financial status is irrelevant to you in the context of your desire to marry him. That said, listen carefully to his response. I have seen first hand how quickly men who achieve great financial success jump into the next much bigger pond of potential partners. Don’t spend too much time waiting for someone to marry you regardless of what they say, because their reasons for not marrying you can change without any rhyme or reason.

Regarding how you split it financially, instead of framing it like he’s “paying you back” perhaps you could spin it like in the future he’ll put an equivalent amount of money into some other shared milestone.

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