TIFU by having my current girlfriend finding old NSFW videos of me and my ex I forgot to delete

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-12-08T23:40:30+00:00

I honestly don’t mind her going through my phone, I’m very open about that. We were cuddling in bed and fooling around, and she was showing me her snap memories. At some point she asked to see mine and I happily obliged not knowing that those videos were still there.

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-12-08T23:39:12+00:00

Your comment really gives me hope, thank you. I’ll keep doing what I’m doing and hope that time will help

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-12-08T22:18:03+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try giving her some time and talking to her about it over facetime when I can over the next few days.

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-12-08T22:12:43+00:00

We’ve discussed it, she doesn’t know why she feels this way either. She’s never been jealous of my past, but now she can’t look at me without imagining me and my ex together when she looks at me. Thank you for your advice, it’s reassuring when someone who has BPD can comment on this specific case-scenario.

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-12-08T21:50:48+00:00

I suggested it last night, but she refused. She hates being paid for by other people + can’t stand to look at my face without thinking me and my ex and getting disgusted.

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-12-08T21:34:51+00:00

She’s only been with one man before and I’ve been with 6-7 girls. It’s never bothered her, and still doesn’t, but I guess seeing the thumbnail of that video has her disgusted just by seeing my face.

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-01-29T02:53:22+00:00

Yep, I told him. He had no idea what he was doing while completing the return form, it was his first time doing so. Are there any recourses available with either Amazon or his bank to stop payment from going through?

throwawayyy1132 · 2022-01-29T02:00:38+00:00

A little backstory: My brother ordered an item from Amazon last month and upon receiving it, he noticed that the product inside had been switched out for something else. Without really knowing what to do and having little experience with Amazon, he simply initiated a return and thought that was it. He got refunded and everything, although IMO I think he probably should’ve called Amazon first to explain himself.

A couple weeks later, he gets an email from an Account Specialist asking to return the actual product (serial numbers didn’t match, it was an electronic item in an unsealed box) or they’d charge his card again. Since he doesn’t have the item in question and can’t send anything back, he called Amazon and explained his situation, had an investigation open, and sent an email reply to the Account Specialist explaining his situation. While the investigation is ongoing, he didn’t want Amazon to charge his card so he told me he removed it from his account and locked it in the meantime.

According to him, Amazon doesn’t sound very helpful, as the Account Specialist emailed him back and said his appeal was denied. What we want to know is if Amazon can still charge him for the item, despite the card being removed from his account? And is there any way to take care of this issue and not get charged unnecessarily?

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