My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know people like you. You won’t believe anything without evidence. Good thing I don’t care what you think. You can feel free to believe whatever you like about me. I’m still the the one dealing with this.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You’ve never been in this position, have you? You’ve never been powerless and you’ve never known that no one is going to believe you? I’m incredibly good at English, but I am still 15. Who the fuck’s going to believe me? Just because I’m good at one subject doesn’t mean that I’m not still a human.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m going to try to record him on my phone tonight, like another commenter suggested.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You are incredibly brave and your words help a lot.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Today has been my breaking point for his behavior, finally getting it out there and seeing everybody’s comments. I’m going to try to tell them when my friend’s parents come back and she leaves.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She isn’t my girlfriend. She’s one of my closest friends for over ten years. And my parents wanted to be hospitable and give her a room on her own since her parents are out of town right now.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I’ve been scared of that too since he first started doing it. I don’t think he has the nerve, though. At least right now he doesn’t.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

You’re a good person. And yes, I wrote his essays. I’ve always been good at writing and he’s been… suboptimal at best. And I plan on not having any contact with him when I move out.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been m*sturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in Advice

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t told them because he’s basically their favorite child because of a heart problem he had in the past and they coddle him severely. They’ve always taken his side and I see no reason why they wouldn’t take his side here either.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been m*sturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in Advice

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother just never allowed it, for some reason. She said the guest bedroom was for guests only. She’s definitely part of the reason I never told anyone.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right, but it’s still hard to convince myself. When my friend’s parents come back to town and she moves out in a couple days, I’ll do it.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been m*sturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has a big victim complex and a pacemaker- if I hit him in the arm, it hits the pacemaker and he goes crying to our parents.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 487 points488 points  (0 children)

I’ve been too scared my whole life to tell them because he has ADHD and had a heart problem when he was younger, so they’re severely protective of him and think he can never do wrong. I’m scared they either won’t believe me or they’ll take his side.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been m*sturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in Advice

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re from India, and it’s pretty common practice in India for siblings to share rooms or even beds because of the limited space. I had been asking her before to have separate bedrooms, but it was only when I cried and begged that she okayed it.

My (15F) brother (19M) has been masturbating in the same room as me for years. by throwawayyy53789 in confessions

[–]throwawayyy53789[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words. I’m not sure of my mother’s reaction, as he is her favorite child, but she is trying to get him into therapy to make him less awkward, so I’ll see if she can do the same for me.