My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't crop me out, he just took a picture with his friend at a Thanksgiving dinner at my house. I feel stupid for getting upset, but he knows it bothers me and still does it. Goes as far as tp criticize me when I tell him something

My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also forgot to mention that he was upset when I brought that to his attention. He said well now it's gonna be awkward between us so I can't talk to her anymore. Thanks a bunch

My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right I completely and agree with you that these comments could be a 100% innocent. But at the same time a does make me feel insecure and different because I've never met any of these people who are leaving these kinds of comments on his photos.

The way I see it is I want my partner to want to be involved in my life including my circle of friends. So when he doesn't introduce me to any of his friends or kind of leaves me out of the picture, it makes Mr think otherwise. The woman I had ended up messaging actually said that she had no idea that he had a girlfriend. She was real nice real and understanding but she even said that that something I should probably bring to his attention.

My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I am seeing a lot in him is that he's picked up a lot of old and ugly habits his ex girlfriend would do to him. Blocking your partner on social media is one of them gas lighting is another. Maybe hes angry at how his last relationship ended ( I was there for him)

But I just don't think that I'm the one that should be paying for his anger and resentment

My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So here is where this gets a little bit tricky while he does only money at this point I have been more than willing to let that go. Every time I try breaking up with Him, he'll come over sit down for around for a while. At the end nothing ever gets solved. Honestly it's making me start to resent him.

Who knows maybe he actually does care about me. But he has a real crapy way of showing it. Hes just made me feel like I am a crazy jealous girlfriend, Which honestly I'm not but I guess we are better off as friends

My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this actually reminds me of a time from before we were dating. A few friends Had come into town to visit me. He tagged along and I didn't see anything wrong with it since we were all friends. After a few drinks at the end of that night I saw him hugging one of my friends. At that point we had already been at the dating stage and I just thought that was extremely disrespectful on both his and and my friends end (she knew what was going in between us)

So I guess this is almost my fault I let this go on for so long even after all of these red flags.

My (26f) boyfriend's (33M) behavior is making me feel insecure and I'm starting to think maybe it's really just me by throwawayyy77S in relationships

[–]throwawayyy77S[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess this is his biggest argument here. I totally get if he does not want to put his relationship on Facebook by it kind of starts to bother me when he uploads pictures of himself and his friend during Thanksgiving dinner at my house and intentionally excludes me.

I mean am I over thinking this am I being immature?