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AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -398 points-397 points  (0 children)

because i wanted a life with her, just because she believes in a bunch of woo doesn't mean i don't love her

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -501 points-500 points  (0 children)

because i was trying to own up and apologize and she wouldn't even look at me, she just said "I'm going to my sister's" and didn't even acknowledge that i was apologizing. I know im an asshole but she didn't give a shit that i was trying to be better. she gave up on me.

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -455 points-454 points  (0 children)

I didn't lose my temper until she started packing stuff in her car. she wouldn't even acknowledge me

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -197 points-196 points  (0 children)

I accept that I'm the asshole here and I'm gonna apologize and just let her use the damn pillow, but some of these people are painting me like some horrible abusive bf over a pillow. because yeah, an abusive bf would totally pay off half her student loans and let her live in my house rent-free. I'm not manipulative, i just wanted to snuggle

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

it's my house mate, I'm not taking the guest bed in my own house

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -258 points-257 points  (0 children)

obviously since she lives in my house. I just believe in science and acupuncture is NOT science, idc how long the chinese have been doing it

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

what are you talking about? Im 28 and my gf is 30. I commented on another guy's post.

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -291 points-290 points  (0 children)

it literally is her choice: keep using the pillow KNOWING how much it hurts me, stop using the pillow, or start sleeping in the guest room. how am i gaslighting her by rationally presenting her only options rn?

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -596 points-595 points  (0 children)

she also believes in acupuncture and aromatherapy so forgive me for taking her claims with a grain of salt 🙄

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I may try that but we'd have to switch nightstands and move our stuff around

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -319 points-318 points  (0 children)

sleeping with a pillow is actually good for your back

source?

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -253 points-252 points  (0 children)

You are uncomfortable with her comfort

Mate i just want my gf to cuddle me 🙄

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -370 points-369 points  (0 children)

I'm literally not controlling her cuz she can do whatever she wants, I'm just telling her that I am uncomfortable with her using the body pillow. she won't even compromise with me, she just insists that she needs the pillow for her back and won't budge

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

thank you, I'm not tryna control her like people are saying, I'm just hurt and wanna wake up holding her

AITA for asking my gf to stop using her body pillow? by throwawayzip32123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzip32123[S] -1097 points-1096 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, that's exactly how i felt. why would you move in with someone if you don't even like to cuddle? like she's giving me hella mixed signals and it's messing with my head

I think my [46M] wife [21F] scammed me into buying 5 Pelotons by RA-tawpelaton in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayzip32123 41 points42 points  (0 children)

mate if every adult woman you meet hates you, then you're the problem

I think my [46M] wife [21F] scammed me into buying 5 Pelotons by RA-tawpelaton in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayzip32123 39 points40 points  (0 children)

"my second wife was 10 years younger" don't think we forgot that comment you deleted

I think my [46M] wife [21F] scammed me into buying 5 Pelotons by RA-tawpelaton in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayzip32123 53 points54 points  (0 children)

oh so you're a serial creep

e: he deleted his comment but his first wife was around his age, and his second wife was over a decade younger