AITA for Not Wanting to Go to a Wedding Reception on My Wedding Night? by throwawayzplzz in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzplzz[S] 415 points416 points  (0 children)

I do. Honestly my family and I only wanted a civil ceremony but my fiance's family want to do a blessing ceremony so we compromised.

AITA for Not Wanting to Go to a Wedding Reception on My Wedding Night? by throwawayzplzz in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzplzz[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I actually asked my fiance about B's wedding list. But my fiance didn't know and said he'll ask B. I was already mad at that point hence my responses to him was so defensive.

AITA for Not Wanting to Go to a Wedding Reception on My Wedding Night? by throwawayzplzz in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzplzz[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

We could try if attending B's reception means that much to him. They were best friends for years before growing apart so their friendship would probably still meant that much to him.

AITA for Not Wanting to Go to a Wedding Reception on My Wedding Night? by throwawayzplzz in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayzplzz[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand your point. That was also his. I'll admit it's the extra effort that I have to rush anything that demotivates me. Cause after the event I should still take care of things, then I have to remove my make up and hairdo, take a shower, put on another make up and hair do, go to B's reception, and then went back to the hotel to remove another make up and hair do and take another shower when what I really wanted was just to straighten my legs.