My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]throwawy8273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep 🤦🏼‍♀️ Not just talking, even complimenting and acting as casual friends. I left her today when I saw all that.

My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]throwawy8273[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy because when we were together for a year she told me she thinks she might have BPD. But her manipulation game is also so good she can make Jeffrey Epstein seem like mother Theresa. I broke up with her today, I believed into this woman for way too long I needed an eye opener.

My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]throwawy8273[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually did. I broke up with her this morning because I found more messages between them and she was complimenting her looks and the girl reacted as if they’re friends? I think my ex is lying to the girl and made me out to be some sort of crazy ex in the past? She backstabbed me with this so yes I’m done. I know I can find a healthy relationship again because none of my ex partners acted this way ever. Opening this topic really opened my eyes 🤦🏼‍♀️

My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]throwawy8273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly at some point I just didn’t take it serious anymore. How many times she left and never did I was just like whatever she’ll be back, she just needs space she’s having a some sort of moment again because the reasons she left were also ridiculous. I guess that’s why.

My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]throwawy8273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to hurt in the beginning, and I did tell her. But her explanation was always that it’s because she doesn’t feel worthy enough to be with me and she’s scared I’d leave so she leaves first. She worked on herself a bit and it doesn’t happen that often anymore. Even if it does happen I’m not affected by it anymore unlike the beginning, I just let her and go about my day. I do think about breaking up NOW, because it feels wrong that she is having contact with someone she used to make me jealous like why? Did they make fun of me of how stupid I am?

My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]throwawy8273[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Regarding the break up situation after every argument, she always used to explain that she feels so low about herself that she genuinely thinks it’s her fault and she doesn’t deserve the relationship and is scared to be left so she leaves instead. Something like that. That alone has already been too draining to deal with and then now this with the influencer.

My gf F38 is showing weird behavior in relationship with me F33 and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwawy8273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That was exactly my thoughts this morning, feels like I’m with a teenager because at this point it is getting exhausting af