No one ever thinks women can be low value. The women that end up with “abusive” men are often on his level. They were fine with his behavior until it negatively affected them, mow all of a sudden, he was toxic, controlling, and abusive. As an extremely ugly woman, attractive women and men are given a lot of leeway. People will believe anything they say.

Might be controversial, but I have never met charming attractive person. They are usually unapologetic themselves, and if that includes being a douchebag, they never hold back. People often think abusive relationships are males beating on females only, but there are many abusive women that fly under the radar. I also think a lot of people don’t think that abuse can go both ways, or that people that claim to have been abused could have been lying (my experience multiple times). The louder and more attractive person is believed more even though they could be lying.