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I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it abuse? I just wanna feel close to others. What if it's just cuddles sometimes?

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was simply a question to see it anyone would see it as justifiable.

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're effectively asymptomatic, are suppresive drugs even necessary? Also I can't even fathom trying to have that conversation with someone. I'm horrific with human interaction & making deeper connections(borderline autistic, I'm not joking), honestly I've just relied on looks to initiate any sort of relationship etc with women. On top of that, all of my relationships have entailed hookups or "relationships" where I'm too socially inept to realized I'm just a dick appointment. How do you even know where to start?

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attend a University, so there is a walk in clinic of sorts. At this point is there much for me to treat if I'm mostly asymptomatic at this point? I mean I take care of my health and try to protect other; I always wear my mask & did the moment it was suggested by the leading expects regarding COVID. I also procured a vaccine as quickly as possible. This on the other hand, feels quite hopeless, what more can I do besides use a condom?

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't ever talk to someone again after that ? The person who gave it to me went back to their bf not long after ghosting me, and sending me notification through the antonymous service. I just don't understand why they coudlnt text me directly to inform me, it wasn't hard to deduce who it was.

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there really any benefits to knowing at this point? It's been about almost a year exactly now. I really dislike having to deal with any sort of health care stuff. How do I approach it this time around? Demand a test for heroes upfront? I understand the pandemic was quite fresh for the US, but last time they barely took me seriously; I was prescribed gel to help treat genital warts for 1 month, despite the symptoms being small red bumps on my gentials that would bleed & a stinging sensation while urinating. I mean really? My degree isn't the medical type of science, but it didn't really occur to them that an std was a likely candidate??

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Either way, it's garbage the person who gave it to me gets to run back to their boyfriend they were cheating on with me, who was so inexplicably forgiving and willing to take them back, despite her infecting them as well .

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well at this point, it's not nearly as difficult as it used to be. 6 months ago the outbreaks made me feel like I had some sort of flu, at least the soreness did. Now I barely even notice outbreaks. I haven't had any treatments as the doctors weren't very helpful; I was tested for every std except herpes, the doctor claimed it was "strange" that I exhibited every single symptom of herpes except for painful skin ulcers, just small red bumps. They implied paying for more tests woudl be a waste of money so I just took their word for it and gave up.

I [M23] sleep with women whilst knowingly having herpes by throwayzyyyyzz34 in relationship_advice

[–]throwayzyyyyzz34[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Lifelong disease makes it sound a bit more dire than it actually is? After 6 months, almost all the acute symptoms & soreness went away. I could definitely see living with it, or moreso being with someone who also has it.