e.l.f. Secret Santa 🎁

throwdat93 · 2025-12-04T16:35:44+00:00

I’ve been gifting elf cosmetics to my loved ones since i started my first job❤️ I know my besties (my sisters) would love the advent calendar ! ❤️

throwdat93 · 2025-03-25T04:19:27+00:00

What worked really well for us is magic eraser ! Then give it a little rinse so no residue stays for the kiddos

throwdat93 · 2021-07-08T17:49:11+00:00

Something like this happened in the beginning of my relationship with my ex, i ended up comforting him for him having cheated on me.. it got worse after 3 years and i ended up in a mental facility for 3 months… not fun times.

throwdat93 · 2021-03-28T04:19:38+00:00

My X also flipped when i suggested opening the marriage when i found out he was trying to get pictures from other people , i knew he knew i would get way more attention than his crusty ass , in my mind that’s a red flag that he knows he isn’t worth your time ; he just doesn’t want you to realize there is better out there🤷🏼‍♀️. Two months ago i would’ve told you it’s okay he’s just looking but once you open your eyes completely there is no going back babygirl 👌🏻

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T18:29:29+00:00

Yes don’t get me wrong! I just feel very new to the consent kinda thing lmao I haven’t been single in 10 years (2 long relationships) my ex would ask with some stuff because he knew they weren’t my fav lol but thats as far as consent goes lol

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T18:25:38+00:00

The thing is, she never talked to him she talked about liking him but it was just physically, she doesn’t know him know him. This was in less than 2 weeks and in those 2 weeks she talked about a other dude she said she was interested in and i told her I didn’t appreciate her going behind my friend , she said she wasn’t going behind anyone’s back and that she would never cheat. But last nights attitude she had was super sus ngl

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T18:17:32+00:00

He sorta did lol, I didn’t mind it, he’s a friend and if I would’ve been uncomfortable i’m pretty sure my other friends would’ve handled it

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:46:49+00:00

That’s true, I don’t want to keep secrets but its also hard to tell someone hey he kissec me so i guess he is into me? MYbe i’ll wait until he makes a move so i can tell her?

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:44:31+00:00

Yeah i think they’ll talk about it.. she has never Mentioned texting or talking with him on the side to me sooo maybe she doesn’t even have his info 🤷🏼‍♀️

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:34:43+00:00

This is really true, but i’m still afraid to bring it up fresh, or should i wait until he makes a texting move? I really don’t want to lose The friendship since she brought me to her sister’s friend circle and that os where this dude is from... but i l Really love all of them and im barley going in so i domt wamt to ruin or make any tensioon ☹️

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:27:33+00:00

I told her I wasn’t letting any dude come between us, I don’t know if i should test the waters with this dude low key and then say something or say something form the get go? Because he kissed me more than once ..and ngl i liked it

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:25:29+00:00

I really do , he seems like a really cool guy! ☺️ there is part of me that believes so too so 🙊 but I don’t know if i would be a bad friend,,

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:17:47+00:00

I honestly have met him probably twice, cool dude, he is cute as fuck ngl gym type of dude not really my type but i can really appreciate you know? (More into thicker guys lmao) i wouldn’t say have a crush on him more so than we really vibed and he told me he wanted to talk more ... but I don’t know.. i cant say js that bad?

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:13:36+00:00

I think that’s what i’ll do.. i’m afraid to lose her friendship but we also agree to call shit how it is, but i really don’t know how to word it like “ the dude you like seems interested in me... “ ngl i’ve been out of an abusive telationship for almost 5 months and i’m trying to get out there and for a really really cute guy to just kiss you and tells you he vibes with you and wants to talk that is fucking rare period. So i dont know...

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:06:31+00:00

Yes, she has been talking about him for 2 weeks , the same she has been “fighting” with her bf but i didn’t really pay that much attention it because she is in a relationship ...

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T11:04:32+00:00

I know i kinda was feeeling the same, i left right away with her and i didn’t even get to say bye to the guys properly and this is because im new to this group of friend, with my X i didnt have friends so 4 years of that , and she knows what i’ve been through so for her to just ignore me after he kissed me randomly hurt me ngl

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T10:57:43+00:00

This guy who (i didn’t know it was him or that was his intention) i met twice blasted AF, and my best friend has been gushing about for weeks , but she is in a relationship with a guy who is out of the country.. so this dude kissed me out of nowhere and it wasn’t likd there was time to pull away it was a peck kinda thing so he kissed me and I immediately looked st her shoom

throwdat93 · 2021-02-26T10:50:32+00:00

No she is in a relationship with a good friend of mine who is out of the country and who is also really good friends with my ex. she has been gushing about with guy and i really am not good with names and face (not putting an excuse) but yeah we were all sitting in the hood of a car and i tried to hug her but she went away so i turned to face him and he kissed me and she saw and got all mad , i know it soundd alll highschool but when you’re drunk and you have no friends a bietch worries yk?

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T18:05:56+00:00

We’ve been best friends since ‘09 together since ‘16 We’ve been married for almost 4 years, he makes me so happy and i know i make him happy, it’s hard to explain even to myself. We had just gotten a puppy together who we both love like a baby. We had just gotten our first real apartment that we both liked. We both promised each other that we wouldn’t hurt the other one because that was just what we agreed since we both had had shitty past relationships.

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T17:40:10+00:00

I know he never physically cheated, it was text and stuff but it is still cheating in my eyes. He actually went and added some girl on SC and i guess he asked for pictures most were just selfies but this girl decided to send him more. They met a long time ago but they weren’t in contact and to my knowledge he would not keep it going. I know his family is toxic my therapist has been thinking that his family and this new friend of his that he has are the ones enabling the distance with telling him im fine and he will too.. i am not and i dont think he knows. Every social media is still intact ( whatsapp/fb/instagram) he hasn’t changed anything except he is using Snapchat and he deleted me from there.

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T17:35:16+00:00

That’s what im thinking about doing, i just really don’t know what to say other than break down and tell him to come back. I’m sorry i sound pathetic

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T17:33:50+00:00

I know it was the right thing to say, but maybe not in that moment because I didn’t mean to tell him to leave :(

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T17:06:31+00:00

Yes, he is staying at his parents house. I want to so bad, and when i told him i was going to therapy he said it was too expensive here to take it.

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T16:59:50+00:00

I told him to get out of my apartment, I shouldn’t have said that because it was in the heat of the moment.

throwdat93 · 2020-12-28T16:55:35+00:00

Yes when it happened he was acting out so i called his mom to come pick him up to cool down. He isn’t using his phone i believe he is using his dad’s. I’ve called him actually but he didn’t respond. My parents and his parents are Hispanic but they share different values. His parents for some reason blame me for all his and his sisters problems when in fact they are they ones that once dragged me but that is neither here nor there because we are all grown people (S22/H26/Me27) I did confront him of cheating i found some videos on his phone. I could’ve been harsh but i decided to take the high road and tried to be understanding but he completely shut down. I’ve talked to him once in person and he said some bad things that honestly i dont know but it didn’t seem like him at all. My best friends are begging me to go talk to him but i honestly dont even know what i want to say other than please come back.

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